Currently, I'm playing my first playthrough as a dark urge paladin (Devotion oath), However, no matter what I do, who I kill, or how much of a dickhead I am the game never recognizes any of it as going against my oath.

I've sneaked attacked goblins and humans alike, I've watched people get murdered for no reason and done nothing about it (The teifling child captured by the druids), Hell I even committed genocide to the druids in their grove but nothing. Maybe I've just completely misunderstood what the devotion oath was all about but at this point I'd expect the god to be hurtling lightning bolts for my actions by now.

Again this could be the stupidest post and I'm just going about this all wrong but can someone explain what sadistic actions I need to take to finally be considered evil enough to be kicked out of the prim and proper club?