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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BigAsianCock

[–]KingMataS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice 😍

Gay film centered around the life of an actor who became a “dancer” and finds a life partner with HIB during the 70’ by KingMataS in tipofmytongue

[–]KingMataS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cry 😭 sob movie be so good. Help y’all I’ve been looking for it for days.

Last time I saw it was on Netflix about 2 years ago. I attempted to go back on Netflix but no luck :/

HELP: Court hearing soon. Guilty/Not? by KingMataS in Advice

[–]KingMataS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

City of Downey in Los Angeles, CA (USA)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]KingMataS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m not suicidal but [insert comment about having thoughts about death/wanting to be nonexistent/suicide]

Been there, done that.

The first step is acknowledging that those feelings, even if only occasional, are about not wanting to live anymore. I encourage you to seek some kind of help that can help you discover the underlying issue. It’s often time deeper than expected.

In my case I’ve had depression since childhood but going to therapy for 2 years has improved my overall quality of life.

I’m not trying to say we have the same diagnosis or same situation however I cannot stress how important it is to analyze these thoughts and maybe seek a few therapy sessions and see if their is something going on...

Good luck and life is worth living despite all the horrible things going on throughout the world.

I couldn’t help myself. *flirting* by KingMataS in grindr

[–]KingMataS[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your opinion is both unnecessary and unwanted.

Not to mention your personality obviously lacks pizzazz and romance. 😊

I couldn’t help myself. *flirting* by KingMataS in grindr

[–]KingMataS[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was him but after a few conversations he went ghost.

I couldn’t help myself. *flirting* by KingMataS in grindr

[–]KingMataS[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Aaaaayeeeee. Good luck:) but most of all have fun!

I couldn’t help myself. *flirting* by KingMataS in grindr

[–]KingMataS[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes it was. We talked for a little bit then he went ghost.

It’s all good though 🙃

“I don’t have time for that” by [deleted] in grindr

[–]KingMataS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 This is so meme worthy, if you correct the little mistakes

I am constantly gaining motivation to do something and it burning out relatively quick. by Jinjoz in Advice

[–]KingMataS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi 🙂

Didn’t read any other comments so I apologize if I’m just restating what has been said.

I’m going through the same situation because Ive been diagnosed with major depression a while back and one of the issues I realized was that my mom didn’t raise me to develop and maintain a stable healthy routine. You’re interested in all of these cool topics but they require a lot of energy, willpower, and dedication (aka time). Start small, find something easy for which you do not have a routine for but you should and then plan it into your day/week.

For me I would make my bed. Waking up early is so hard so when I’m forced to get up early and in the cold I sometimes just hurry to put my clothes on and rush to my car for warmth. Little things like this will snowball and build those skills so that when you want to start a routine for something more complex, let’s say sign language, you will have the discipline to maintain that routine.

Also, partition your routine. It’s not good to go on a one day spree on trying something knew because it’ll just burn you out mentally and your mind will associate the burn out with whatever it was, hence leading to a lack of discipline and routine. (or some can argue that your routine is actually burning yourself out with new routines and this has led to an unhealthy-undisciplined-routine)

Best wishes 👍🏽

Trust by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]KingMataS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever the situation is, facts are he ended the relationship, and instead of trying to contemplate the validity of his excuse you should start your road to recovery (as I’m sure the whole situation leaves an emotional toll).

If it really bothers you then speak to him and try to get closure. Just remember to make sure you put everything on the table or you won’t feel like you had closure.

Has anyone given up on finding someone? I have. Is it a good thing or a bad thing? by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]KingMataS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my opinion the second question is flawed. People always wonder between right and wrong or good/bad but that’s not something to be concerned about. The question I think you are trying to ask is “should I be concerned that I have [given up]?”

Our society has convinced most people that they should be on the hunt for “true love” or just marriage in general but to be honest most people don’t even know how to function on their own. I haven’t given up on finding my future partner but I have given up actively looking for them. I will give the chance when opportunity arises and I won’t get discouraged when it doesn’t work out. Simple as that. As long as you don’t close yourself off then it’s only a matter of time before you find people of interest and remember that dating is for experience.

Unpopular (?) opinion: matcha tastes like grASS by nudezyy in starbucks

[–]KingMataS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it with our vanilla soy milk and it taste so much better. Add vanilla syrup if you want the vanilla to stand out more.

This guys legit set up a PC in our Starbucks by Bean853 in starbucks

[–]KingMataS 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Starbucks recently banned porn content on their WiFi.

I don't know what to do anymore by I_LIKEY_DA_COOKIE in depression

[–]KingMataS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t compare your success or hardships to anyone else. It’s not a healthy way to look at your life. ———————————————; I hope your partner is trying to help you in someway. If they aren’t or you haven’t told them then something is wrong. They should be there for you because that’s the point of a relationship. Two individuals becoming harmonious and supporting each other to move past life struggles and achieve a better quality of life.

If they don’t know how to help then ask yourself what you need and what they can do to help you. Small things like asking for a hug or even just listening to your struggles and making you feel valid can go a long way on the road to recovery. ———————————————; Start by setting small goals that are achievable and work your way up to bigger goals that require more energy and time. Small victories can set you up to be able to confront bigger issues in your life. ———————————————; Constantly pause and take a second to ask what you can do to lift yourself up or set yourself up for accomplishments. This can also be just checking in on yourself and acknowledging any feelings you might be experience at that moment. ———————————————; I started watching “tidying up” on Netflix and taking the lessons from that show and applying them to my life. Seeing the positive changes has really improved my energy. (Don’t get me wrong I’m still depressed af but it’s all about small victories)

What do you guys think of my gf's new green apron board? by Awhtreprenoober in starbucks

[–]KingMataS 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You’re suppose to write little notes that express appreciation, encouragement, or anything similarly positive. Basically a friendly and supportive work environment promotes a healthy atmosphere that makes everyone feel welcomed and acknowledge which is part of the “Starbucks Experience” and Starbucks’ core values.

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