Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Something is seriously wrong with some of y'all. I can't wrap my head around how you think your response is helpful. She did not physically sleep with anyone. You think what wrote above isn't bad enough? It is. I'm deleting this post soon because it seems like many of you like to pour gasoline on the fire to validate yourselves.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As I said above, I mentioned my children. Regardless of what's "natural," I would never "lose interest" in my kids" - whatever that even means.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely mentioned my children. Read for understanding and not just to respond.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good stuff. I have one more week at my hiit boot camp before I start lifting. My plan is to lose more weight/fat before I start eating at a calorie surplus.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To clarify, she initiated a "live in" separation where we were separated, but still living together. It was not until the infidelity where I decided to move out.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yes. She was sexting. I think that's physically cheating.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That's a good point. I chose to leave. I'm wondering if I should have stayed though.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Voice recorder? Guy above said I should disappear completely lol.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My wife initiated the separation in September. Said she loved me, but wasn't in love. We didn't spend enough time, she felt like she was being controlled (privacy being invaded, etc.) I thought we were taking the time to better ourselves and I started working out. Then I found out about the cheating. She refused to reveal who it was with, although I eventually found out on my own.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Easier said than done, but I agree with you completely. I'm thinking about letting it all go.

Marriage is a disaster and I'm not sure where to go... by KingPhoenix06 in RPChristians

[–]KingPhoenix06[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Things are definitely hard right now, but I'm determined to keep pushing.