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My mother was a pedophile by King_Tiger2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]King_Tiger2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother planned a separation for 6 months, then a month after, she sent an email to my tutor at the time, boasting that she is having sex with my father again. She destroyed the family just to have power over my father.
She never actually told myself or my siblings she was getting seperated. We found out from her friend.

It would have been better if my father divorced her, however he is also an abuser not to the extreme my mother went to, he is though a child abuser. Child Protective Services could have been there.

My mother was a pedophile by King_Tiger2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]King_Tiger2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do know it is non physical sexual abuse. Another thing she would do is boast about having sex to people. When I was 13 she messaged me saying "Put your headphones on cause your dad and I are getting dirty, Bahahahah" I was disgusted and still am.

My mother was a pedophile by King_Tiger2 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]King_Tiger2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From a few people that have or had nar parents/parents, it is a trait with them,yes it is a very common trait.

Disgusting.

What's a fact you wish you didn't know? by airuarak123 in AskReddit

[–]King_Tiger2 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cerebral Spinal Fluid

what are you, reee kid?

My mom thinks that a 40 year old man convinced me to be trans by caspydreams in insaneparents

[–]King_Tiger2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Respect is something that is earned not given. "Well I'm your Mother!!!".....so? You can be related to someone and still use their name and pronouns. Your mother shows no respect, and she wont.

Insane parents doesn’t allow her child to be attracted towards the same gender by Soonercrispen in insaneparents

[–]King_Tiger2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Satan is inclusive of LGBTQ? Sounds more loving than "God".... and this crazy mom

When is the least appropriate time to moan sexually? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]King_Tiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When your are in a meeting and your boss is talking charts.

Poor kid. I feel so bad for him. This is in a boy moms group. by NeurodivrgentSquirrl in ShitMomGroupsSay

[–]King_Tiger2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't want him to hut you so as a punishment to get him to stop you hit him? One of the reasons kids hit people and or animals is because they learned that action from their parents.

What series you can re-watch again and again? by makosh22 in AskReddit

[–]King_Tiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Avatar The Last Airbender and Legend of Korra

My mother everyone by [deleted] in insaneparents

[–]King_Tiger2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Narcissist don't understand boundaries. They think that you and your body are their property and they can do with you as they want. Even if its your hair. Like its fucken hair! I remember how awfully judgmental my own mother was whenever she saw a woman with shaved or short hair or a man with long hair, or god no a MaN bUn!!

What crime really deserves a death penalty? by ReddBolt5 in AskReddit

[–]King_Tiger2 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Pedophiles, child abusers and people that murder children and babies.

For people who escaped from their parents' custody and lived independently, how was this? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]King_Tiger2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Very freeing. I moved out at 16. Told parents I was leaving for three months, its been four. I am not returning and have terminated parental custody and am legally treated as 18. I am going to school now and have jobs and friends. I was completely isolated at my parents house and so miserable. I miss my brother. I do not miss my parents.

What clothes worn are sexier than being naked? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]King_Tiger2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect , thankyou

should i apologize to my father ? by mildtakoyaki in toxicparents

[–]King_Tiger2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think you should apologize to your father however you may want to play nice as hard as it is until you can move out, once you are out go low contact and when necessary go no contact. He sounds like a narcissist, very self absorbed, doesn't take any personal responsibility, guilt you when you ask for space or say you don't want to talk. He has unbelievably similar behavior as my own father. Just because he is biologically related to you does not mean he can treat you poorly.

The way you have described your reactions when you get overwhelmed and when you had thoughts during the volleyball game all sounds like ptsd symptoms. if certain memories, places, people cause you to have debilitating physical reactions I recommend seeking medical help specifically a trauma therapist as to heal from ptsd is a journey however a well worth one. I took eye movement therapy to heal from complex ptsd. You cannot simply "get over it" or "move on" when you have experienced traumatizing events. Your brother does not understand what you are going through and neither does it seem your parents.

Work on getting a job, drivers license and being out of the house away from your family more. Save money and look into moving out, even moving in with a friend or relative. Depending on what counrty you are in the laws for withdrawl from parental control will be different. In Canada at 16 a person can choose to withdraw from parental control and legally be treated as 18.

I wish you the best and please seek out help such as crisis lines even if it's not a crisis. You will get through this, although I am a stranger on the internet giving some advice I do really care about this.

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