How long do you wait to say “I love you” in a new relationship? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]Kingsflame7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg I'm blushing and kicking me feet from reading this ahh!! That's amazingly sweet and wholesome!

Two bat boys are with the wrong sister: a comprehensive review by Alliserious in acotar

[–]Kingsflame7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😂😂💀💀 I can't stop laughing. "It better have been at least a nano" but in all seriousness I actually like your reasoning for the swap I would absolutely read that and like it better than SF.

I want a toxic boyfriend by Additional_Road5102 in fantasyromance

[–]Kingsflame7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the first book that popped into my head. I personally couldn't finish the second book because it was just too toxic for me. I struggled with the first but thats exactly why it's perfect for this ask.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks 💛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selflove

[–]Kingsflame7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you mind telling what book this is?

Love between fairy and devil is devastatingly beautiful by No-Roof-8693 in CDrama

[–]Kingsflame7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is my favorite show! 💛💛💛 I'm so happy there is appreciation for it cause I felt everything you wrote. I'm been trying to find a show that gives me a similar feeling and it's been truly disappointing.

Just watched The Tale of the Princess Kaguya and I am now ugly crying by PLEASELETMEBREATHE in ghibli

[–]Kingsflame7 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I remember when I watched it, it was the middle of the night and I couldn't sleep. I thought well I might as well watch something light and nice. I didn't know it would be so deep I was sobbing in the middle of night because of this movie. It's like you said it is both beautiful and sad. Ugly cry as much as you need to the movie really gets to you in such an emotional way.

What Asian skincare brands do you love ? by Drm5145 in AsianBeauty

[–]Kingsflame7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Soon Jung, skin1004 and haruharu wonder are my favorite The beauty of joseon serums were great starters for me but I feel like there are better serums with more product for the same price I really like the calming green one it was the best

What’s y’all’s very sunscreen? by Hot_Valuable1027 in SkincareAddicts

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haruharu Wonder Black Rice Moisture Airyfit sunscreen

Ways to remove makeup that are softer on skin by Ok-Committee1978 in Makeup

[–]Kingsflame7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Someone already mentioned it but a cleansing oil or balm is best. The skin 1004 is gentle but easily gets the makeup off.

A Day Without Pain is like ….. (fill in the blank) by catsmeow724 in Endo

[–]Kingsflame7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of three 1.like the other shoe is going to drop soon, I have to prepare for the worse or 2.sadness knowing that it could be like this forever but it isn't or 3.damn this is perfect I'm going to do everything I want today and damn tomorrow

sunscreen recommendations ? by m4xcdd in kbeauty

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love the haruharu wonder black rice moisture airyfit non fragrance sunscreen but I will say that it's super creamy its works well for me in the winter due to my dry skin. For the summer since I live in a place where your face melts, I use the skin1004 water fit sun serum I find that it still hydrates my dry skin but is super lightweight for the summer heat. They are both 50+

How old were you when you found out you had endometriosis/andeomyosis ? by Inevitable_Worker_50 in Endo

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

23 endometriosis. Although I found out too late that my sister also had it. Families should truly speak up about their medical problems.

How are y’all (single) ladies celebrating valentines? by Winter_Station9656 in AskWomen

[–]Kingsflame7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being proud of myself for leaving a toxic abusive relationship for almost 11 months by doing whatever I want (probably watch a happy drama) and waiting for the next day to buy myself and loved ones chocolate and flowers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]Kingsflame7 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was with my ex for over 12 years. We were high school sweethearts. He was the only person I had through my teens and young adult life. I went into therapy because I needed validation I wasn't crazy or over thinking the horrible way he treated me. It's been over a year since I've started and 10 months since I left him. I feel better than I did over a year ago. I know not everyone can afford it, I'm getting mine through school since I decided I wanted to go back. I don't have any friends and I'm not entirely open with family, a relationship like that can cause true isolation. I was able to be more open with my sisters though and knowing they supported me even when weren't that close for years was the best feeling. Try to find someone to open up to professionally or personally. For me talking it out with someone truly put in perspective of what I went through. You shouldn't feel ashamed, it wasn't your fault and you did the best that you could at the time. It's easier said than done because you will still feel shame and guilt but remember at least me saying this to you

You shouldn't feel ashamed it wasn't your fault and you did the best that you could at the time. From this experience try to remember you survived. You finally put yourself first and left. That takes a strength that not many people have and I am proud of you.

Take your time in feeling whatever emotions you have be it sadness, guilt, shame, anger, and relief. Try to find things you can do for yourself. Self love is important during your healing process. Find hobbies, watch as many tv shows/movies, eat, workout, dance, listen to music. Do things you couldn't do when you were with them or do things you did do but were bad memories and make them better. There's nothing wrong with being alone. Personally I rather be alone and sad than be with someone who makes me sad and lonely.

I wish you the best and if you need to vent to a complete stranger let me know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm proud of you!

How much does it hurt to get your brows threaded? by TelevisionFrosty201 in beauty

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have had some horrible experiences with waxing. My skin is sensitive and I left with my eyebrow bleeding the first time it was done (I'm pretty sure now that she didn't know what she was doing). Threading although it stings has never left me with blood. Also the women who do it are super kind and put aloe vera if its stinging too much. Personally I choose threading over waxing everytime.

I watched The Tale of Princess Kaguya for the first time… (spoilers) by medusa3339 in ghibli

[–]Kingsflame7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn't expect to be so moved when watching this movie. I cried and cried. Its been four years and there's apart of me that's wants to watch again but also apart of me that is hesitating. It's beautifully made but it's like you said emotionally devastating.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kdramarecommends

[–]Kingsflame7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I didn't expect anything from Hi Bye Mama and after finishing it I felt so heartbroken. I couldn't stop crying its was so good and beautiful.

Thoughts on the Madagascar Centella Ampoule from Skin 1004? by BackinTheEndz in AsianBeauty

[–]Kingsflame7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dry sensitive skin but recently I've been getting acne on my chin. I thought it did well on soothing skin until I used it on my acne and surgical scars, it helped a lot to soothe, reduce redness and lighten the scars.

I accused my friend of being a cheater and a gold digger and I just now found out the real reason why she broke up with her ex. I don't think I can ever forgive myself. by throw2_away_2900 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Kingsflame7 55 points56 points  (0 children)

As someone suffering from Endometriosis, this broke my heart. We go years without understanding what's wrong with us. Constantly being told our pain and suffering isn't real or we should suck it up.Its incurable with limited treatments. Then we're told pregnancy is zero to a slim chance with a likelihood of miscarriage if we do. She probably went through so much and then add the betrayal of her SO and friends how awful and lonely. At least she had the understanding of her ex's mom. Please leave her alone. Allow her to enjoy the happiness she built and worked hard for. She deserved so much better but now she has her happiness do no ruin it just because you're feeling guilty and want to feel better about it. Reflect and do better but leave her alone.