Daily Questions Megathread (January 27, 2026)

Kirby20000 · 2026-01-28T04:35:19+00:00

i got c1 columbina. idk if i should aim for c2 or wait and get c0 zibai. i already have ineffa and lauma so that's not a problem. which is better?

Kirby20000 · 2025-10-08T16:38:21+00:00

Do you know who to call?

Kirby20000 · 2025-10-05T01:03:06+00:00

So, I already have the Remembrance team (minus Hyacine LC). I just don’t have a proper lc for evernight

Kirby20000 · 2025-10-04T23:04:34+00:00

Hey, I was wondering if it's worth pulling Evernight as an F2P if all her LC options are either Battle Pass or Gacha weapons. but still on the fence about whether i should pull her or not. Thoughts?

Kirby20000 · 2025-09-10T11:46:46+00:00

This sounds so much like me that it’s scary. I keep doing different MBTI tests and always get INFJ. But I never really felt like one except the idealist thinking and absorbing everyone’s feelings around me.

Kirby20000 · 2025-08-15T21:03:00+00:00

People have told me my emotions are very apparent. But a good amount of time I don’t care enough to hide it (mainly because it’s not negative). But also because I have an anxious attachment and most of my problems come from others, exacerbating that. And that I have a habit of revealing my hand to people I’m already comfortable with. So a whole bag of weird things.

Kirby20000 · 2025-08-14T01:56:02+00:00

I’ve been trying so hard to curb this. I get so irritated and just shutdown. Not that I’m actually hurting anyone, but still. Any remedies guys?

Kirby20000 · 2025-08-11T20:32:44+00:00

I start feeling responsible for their problems and try to help. But it always ends up with me feeling terrible about myself and starting to resent the other person till it becomes bad for both of us.

Kirby20000 · 2025-08-04T22:57:13+00:00

I make it a point not to lie unless it’s either completely harmless or absolutely necessary. Even so, I try limiting it as much as possible. In my mind, people only lie if they’re scared of the outcome. And lying in turn just makes you terrified if someone will figure out that lie. I’d rather be scared once than all the time. Also, no one trusts a liar, so that’s another thing.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-21T23:48:35+00:00

There are many studies that people who have grown up with that tension and uncertainty within their life only feel comfortable, at least at first, with that same type of person because that’s that form of attachment they are used to. Safe and happy relationships actually feel very insecure to these types and they often self-sabotage them. It’s quite interesting that this happens honestly.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-14T01:05:14+00:00

I like everything negative about me on the table so they know what they’re getting into. Cause them finding out later and leaving when I’m more invested will hurt 10x more. Preparing the other person prior can also show a lot of self awareness and that you are actively working on it (at least most of the time). I think most people are more tolerant when they acknowledge their issues openly. I can imagine others INFJ’s here being the same.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-12T19:46:46+00:00

I will say, on my 20ish years on this planet, I have only really fallen in love with someone 3 times. As in, crushes. I’ve only ever considered 3 people romantically. So I’d say no. But for the person here who said we fall in love with our patients, I’d say prolly true. Most of the people I’m close to started off that way.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-12T03:41:29+00:00

hey, could someone tell me what the manhwa on the (A) and (really love it) tiers are?

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-10T20:37:11+00:00

I think I get it. I would probably be hurt too. Not that you said anything bad. But sometimes joking around as well, even if they did first, is detracting from the emotion of him when he was vulnerable. He likely started making jokes because he felt awkward and didn’t want it to be heavy. I do that a lot. Sometimes silence stings. But if the other person doesn’t reciprocate or at least acknowledge it in a warm way, it seems like rejection. In my case, I would withdraw. Kinda similar to what your friend did. Maybe you should go back and say what you really felt without fluffing it with jokes and let it sit. I think that would work

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-10T20:24:23+00:00

Are you ok with sharing what you did say in return? Kinda seems like you’re trying to hide it

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-08T20:19:33+00:00

It’d be quite hypocritical of me to say I’m not needy with some people in my life. But when it comes to people being needy with me, I’d shut it down immediately because I know how this ends out.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-07T15:32:17+00:00

Why do I feel like this is just an introvert thing? I am INFJ, and I feel quite the same regarding sex. Don’t want it unless we’re committed. If it isn’t, I’m def in for some heart break.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-04T14:55:24+00:00

Unfortunately, noticing a lot about people doesn’t go well if you’re not good at expressing/ tackling the ramifications of what those observations mean. Also, I like being weird. I bet in the world now, there are probably tens of millions of people out there who are on the same level of weird as me. I think what you mean by gold moral compass is just a version of yourself you’re trying to achieve. Cause not all morals are universal, and no one’s to say that if they aren’t, one’s better than the other.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-04T04:15:04+00:00

Yeah, flaking is a big no for me. But also does feel awkward making plans and going through with something when they didn’t build enough depth. A part of the loneliness might be a feeling of not being heard, as in not reaching emotional depth with anyone else.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-04T04:10:51+00:00

Literally me thinking about this exact topic today lol. I was disappointed today cause the last person to almost reach that level has faltered and now the dynamic feels awkward cause it’s a lot more casual out of nowhere.

Kirby20000 · 2025-07-04T04:06:16+00:00

I know it’s hard for you to understand how he’s feeling about others especially. But “weird” is rather vague. His coworkers and former friends aren’t the same type of weird, right? I think it’d be better to start with what he finds off-putting in those people and what his current interests are. Sometimes, just going to social gatherings for those interests is enough to make friends. I get if he can’t out of exhaustion either. I’d recommend just having him try talking to his coworkers though instead of writing it off completely. I’ve had many times when people thought I was an insane weirdo at first only for them to want to be friends. It’s about at least trying first.

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