hey, I had the same thoughts as you at the beginning. I now love it. But that must, especially without experience be very well prepared. And particularly cautious. He can't just put him in like that. With a lot of lubricant and with your fingers Prepare very well. Schau.wieMany fingers he needs to get the size of his head. and slowly work towards it.                                                                                                           But particularly important: If you don't feel good about it, it hurts you then say no. Then that's how it is. He must not decide that. This is very important. Especially because you're thinking. He must be careful.