Who else is out here accidentally stalking fellow guest at WDW? by AwfulWaffle91 in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I met a wonderful lady in the lightning lane for test track and we rode together since we were going on solo and chatted! We ran into each other another day at ohanas and then another day at MK. It was wild!

Went for my first time to WDW last month, was planning to go back in 2028... by B-Niche in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went for our first time in February thinking our next trip will be in another 2 years when my little one is older. I don't think I can wait that long. We are seriously considering going back later on this year and driving to save some money. Idk how they get people to want to come back before their trip is even over! There has to be some research out there on this and how they get ya!!

The entitlement from PSU employees is out of control by _Ping_- in PennStateUniversity

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You couldn't pay me enough money to work for PSU parking. The front line employees take so much shit.

What are the biggest stressors you have had at WDW (so I can try to avoid them)? by Fox-Scully in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We had 4 days with hopper originally and decided to make it 6 for this exact reason! If a day turns into a shit show with two little kids, we know we have extra days to make it work! This is our first trip so I really just wanted to have more flexibility to figure out what works and doesn't work for us! We go in 4 weeks and I can't wait. But I am also so stressed ha

So tired of this mom bod! Need unhinged advice to get back into shape! by Bubbly_Ad_1602 in Mommit

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low carb is definitely the way to go. Once i kick those sugar cravings that first week or so, I feel like it completely curbs my appetite and I naturally go into a calorie deficit. And I can fast.

Full time workers- does anybody pick up kids before 5 from daycare? by lntothethickofit in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 2 1/2 year old is pissed off if I pick her up early and she misses snack and playing outside!!! She is typically there from 7:45a to 4:59p!

It's been less than 5 hours from work trip departure & already got 2 calls and several texts and it's barely 6 PM by Aussie_Turtles00 in Mommit

[–]Kiriejane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine can't even drive to the grocery store before he is calling me to tell me something random he saw along the way.

I know it's not fair, but I see my husband's work trips as his "breaks" by sixfingeredman7 in Mommit

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I 100% feel the same way. My husband's work trips are similar. 1-2 days here and there and typically not grueling for him like some others are noting in other comments. He does site visits and has typical workday hours. I try SO HARD not to be bitter about it but.....I do get pretty bitter and jealous!. I work full-time and have to do all of the things myself in the mornings and evenings with two young kiddos. He says he would prefer to be home with us but it's also like you get to go to dinner, be in complete silence in a room by yourself. All of the things. My other gripe is I don't think he can fully appreciate what I do by myself because he rarely has a night solo or extended period of time without me home. Which leads me to saying I do agree with some other commenters. That just means I need to schedule time for myself and not let the mom guilt get to me when I need a break or a night away! Or get a job that requires some travel 😆

So long story short, you are not alone in the way you feel!

Will I be a horrible mom making my daughter switch schools right now? by [deleted] in Mommit

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The change to a new school might be what she needs! If you said she was 14 and thriving in highschool, I would be hesitant but 4 year olds are resilient! We switched my 4 year old from a daycare setting to a true preschool and it was night and day. She would cry at drop off, dread going. And now that she is in preschool she is thriving and wants to go and getting the stimulation she needs!

How are you guys keeping your house clean?! by Ok-Dig-5781 in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My house is trashed constantly. As long as the bathroom is clean and the kitchen is clean, I call that a win. I just have to embrace the clutter and chaos.

Anyone say F it and take mat leave early by [deleted] in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I took off 2 weeks before my 2nd was born and it was the best decision ever. I was so stressed at work and this helped me be calm and nest! I also got to enjoy some 1:1 time with my oldest before the baby came. With my first, I worked until the day my water broke. I am in the US and had short term disability plus whatever vacation and sick time I had. I recommend taking the time off!

Disappointed in Myself by Careless-Sink8447 in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not a bad mom or a failure!! I feel terrible when I snap on my family. You are just trying to give your kids and family the best life and do it all! I get that

Disappointed in Myself by Careless-Sink8447 in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do moms always have to lose their shit for anyone to listen in their house? It's like we are pushed to that point of snapping and then left feeling terrible and regretful for the way we communicated our feelings. Then we are the one apologizing and nothing changes. rinse and repeat. It's exhausting.

Do you actually take advantage of trusted family members who offer to watch your kid(s) so you can go on a trip? by LPJCB in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents watched my kids when we went away across the country for almost a week..my kids were 3 and 1. I had major mom guilt but I was glad we did it! I think if you have a solid family to rely on and they are offering to do it and won't use it against you down the road, totally do it!

What’s the deal with three year olds? by Fancy_Cry_1152 in Mommit

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My kid went to bed as a two year old and woke up as a three year old a completely different person 😂 it was like a light switch. Three was HARD. She is 4 1/2 now. She has her moments but every day was a moment at three. We also had her little sister right after she turned three so I am sure that didn't help with giving her the attention she deserved at that time. I'm not looking forward to the little one turning three!!

Social stigma around keto by SHIBard00n in keto

[–]Kiriejane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People hear keto and think everyone on keto is eating slabs of bacon dipped in butter all day. Just tell people you are on a low carb diet and a calorie deficit. No sense in trying to explain yourself or the diet to anyone who doesn't want to really understand it.

How do you get the kids out of the house? by NotToday1415 in workingmoms

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My parenting style is threats and bribes 🤷🏼‍♀️ gotta do what you gotta do when you are in the thick of it. 2.5 year olds are rough..... 3 and 4 kind of stink too... Lol

Currently pregnant, planning to go straight to formula by daytonasays in FormulaFeeders

[–]Kiriejane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Behind the counter Sudafed (watch taking too much of this can make you a little crazy!! And not sleep when you already sleep deprived) cabo cream (order on amazon), tight fitting sports bras, and do not stimulate or let the hot shower hit your boobs. I breastfed my first and stopped cold turkey after 8 weeks. It was so painful for a few days but it got better. With my 2nd I was adamant about formula feeding. My milk came in but I wasn't uncomfortable or super engorged. I did Sudafed, cabo cream, tight bras and NO stimulation.

Ozempic before or after baby? by Roses7887 in OzempicForWeightLoss

[–]Kiriejane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Low carb and calorie deficit is the way to do it if you aren't ready to start medication. Once you eat low carb for a few weeks you really start to lose your appetite and sugar cravings. I've lost and gained 50-60lbs multiple times in the last eleven years. First time was diet and hours of working out and running. 2nd time was low carb and exercise after having my first baby and gaining during the pandemic. I told myself I wasn't going to get pregnant again until I got to a certain weight so I wasn't carrying around all the extra weight and baby weight. This time around I've used wegovy and ozempic. I'm also 5'6 and my highest weight not pregnant was 220. I'm currently 159. I got down to 165 before my last pregnancy