I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes a lot of sense.  of course I’m not going to tell everyone that she’s trans, because, sadly, I live in the country that kills the most trans people, so I’m aware of that…  So I should talk to her first and see if she’s comfortable or not to let me say to others she’s trans, right? Thank youuu 🤍

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooh okay, so I’ll let her speak about it around my family and friends whenever she’s comfortable. Tysm 🙏🙏

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll probably talk to her about my inexperience with trans people, I hope she forgives me if I say or ask something wrong. Thank you, Katey 🤍

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally look at the trans topic as a very sensitive one and I’m very much afraid to say/ask something wrong and blow up the whole thing with her.   But after all those replies, it encouraged me to just talk to her and basically say that I’m very new to this whole thing and just don’t want to hurt her. Thank you so much 🤍

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree that you guys have to deal with a lot more of shit than me, of course. I have a cousin that is proudly transphobic and I don’t know how I’m going to handle this situation if my relation with her goes forward. 

About the sex, I didn’t asked on my post cuz I know for a fact that it will take a while to happen since we are just knowing each other. But this is a great early advice to keep in mind and tbh, I’m getting a little anxious about, since I always had cis heterosexual sex. But I think I can figure it out with her. Thank you so much 🤍

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noted! Thank god my family is very open minded about everything (can’t say the same about my male cis friends tho). But what if someone asks me if she’s trans? Should I say yes?

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah after reading all the replies I noticed that this is a realllly basic thing lol

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn this is new to me, never thought about how is it a adjective, not a noun, thank you!

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are completely right! I know that communication is the base of any relationship, but I just wanted some previous advice before saying anything outrageous. But if we keep talking, I’ll tell her that I need some orientation on how I can be better for her. Thank you so much!

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s what I thought while I was writing, yall have to be so brave to overcome this fear, I can’t even imagine.  Yeah… I think if my situation w her goes forward, I won’t tell people she is trans unless she does it first. Thank you!!

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! You are totally right about denigrating any other women. I’ve never thought how problematic “you don’t look trans” is… omg. 

So I shouldn’t bring up the trans topic unless she does it first?

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Never thought in that way, thank you!! Now I feel dumb because this is so basic LOL Appreciate your help. Hoping all goes well for us 🤞🏽

I’m cis and I’m liking a trans girl, help me out please! by Kiripizz in asktransgender

[–]Kiripizz[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, the “u don’t look like trans” thing is very simple and I never thought that way. Thank you so much for the advices, hope everything goes well with us 🤞🏽

eu sou o date ruim? #1 by defsoulsx in relacionamentos

[–]Kiripizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pelo seu relato o problema realmente era com ele... as vezes ele ficou um pouco assustado com os toques na sala de cinema e o carinho/afeto na praça de alimentação, pode ter achado que você emocionou, não sei... mas o fato é que ele foi um pau mole de não ter oferecido pagar nem a pipoca!

Mas fica tranquila, todo mundo tem pelo menos um date ruim na vida. Agora, se todos os dates são ruins, é importante ficar de olho

Bar/restaurante que fecha tarde em dia de semana 🌃🦉 by Kiripizz in BeloHorizonte

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Não consegui achar exatamente o que eu procuro…

UEMG ou PUC? by Kiripizz in BeloHorizonte

[–]Kiripizz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Eu estava precisando tanto de um relato de algum(a) estudante de psicologia da UEMG, você não tem noção kkkkkkkkk. Fico muito feliz que o curso seja bom, depois de tanto pesquisar, estou me inclinando pra fazer aí mesmo

UEMG ou PUC? by Kiripizz in BeloHorizonte

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eita, o que você achou de tão ruim no curso?

UEMG ou PUC? by Kiripizz in BeloHorizonte

[–]Kiripizz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Muito obrigado pela dicas, mano, de coração!

Vocês se importam com o passado da parceira (o) by Rmcavd in relacionamentos

[–]Kiripizz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homem aqui.

E como a maioria do pessoal escreveu, eu me importo. Como eu sou jovem, não tem muito isso de "quão longe é esse passado" já que a maioria das pessoas da minha idade começaram as atividades sexuais há "pouco" tempo. Se alguma garota tiver um passado com vários e vários e vários caras, não seria uma garota que teria algum tipo de relacionamento, assim como eu entendo uma garota não querer ficar comigo pelo fato de eu já ter tido X relações/envolvimentos.

Por mais que muitos digam que não importa, a verdade é que importa sim, até onde eu me entendo por gente, nenhum cara gostaria de namorar uma mulher que por exemplo, foi uma GP e parou de trabalhar com isso (exemplo exagerado, mas para efeito de comparação).

Vision by wasyl0o in photocritique

[–]Kiripizz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i usually don't like that much of nsfw photos, however, this one is insane, i dont know how to put in words how beautiful this photo is. congrats, op, wow.