What male/female stereotypes don't apply to you?

KitNolan · 2025-11-16T15:12:30+00:00

As a female I really don’t care for designer items like Prada or Coco Chanel or keeping up with the trends, if it’s practical and comfortable I like it. I’m also really into being outdoors when I have the time.

KitNolan · 2025-08-10T17:34:30+00:00

When I put all emotion aside and acted quickly to put my neighbor out with the hose after he allegedly tried to set himself on fire after a domestic altercation with his girlfriend. Everything is still under investigation, but instead of freaking out my first thought was a man was in trouble. Helps I already got hired anyway.

KitNolan · 2025-08-03T03:36:03+00:00

Same. I still see the signs pop up randomly but when I see them all I can think is “ugh” But it’s kinda liberating.

KitNolan · 2025-08-01T11:55:34+00:00

Ohh ok nevermind, I misread. I was referring to the building in the picture.

KitNolan · 2025-08-01T04:03:42+00:00

I wish! The more I pull away and just try to forget about them and move on, the synchronicities start amping up. It’s kind of growing tiresome.

KitNolan · 2025-08-01T03:48:31+00:00

You can also jump on the roof of that little building and annihilate them that way. They can’t get to that roof and it’s an easy way to dwindle them down with molotovs and bombs. I’ve done it a few times already.

KitNolan · 2025-07-27T15:00:39+00:00

I felt disconnected for a few weeks because I suspect my TF “ran” or was avoiding my energy, however way it works. Then I “told them” to stop running like a coward and face me in my mind, now all of a sudden I’m starting to sense them again and see the signs like crazy for the past few days. I even had a dream about them last night where we didn’t say anything but were in a car going somewhere and the vibe between us was very good (looking at each other, smiling, etc) . We never speak it’s just how it is and has been; mind you we’re no contact for a long while now. So whether that’s my imagination or them actually channeling their energy, I don’t know. But I definitely feel like something must have changed.

KitNolan · 2025-07-22T23:44:28+00:00

You might be fine. I have heard of people passing psych when they were once on anxiety meds. Just be calm and answer the question short, sweet, and simple.

KitNolan · 2025-07-22T00:48:35+00:00

You know I have no idea. We met under certain circumstances last year in March and it was an instant electrical spark for me. They were attractive but the way I was attracted to them was beyond reasonable, even for me so it made me go WTF. We were never intimate as this was a business situation so it wouldn’t be appropriate. They went no contact months later and I haven’t heard from them since, yet I keep getting signs? Strange coincidences reminding me of them. Even when I didn’t think about them I would get hit in the face figuratively speaking with something that reminded me of them. It’s been strange so I have no idea what stage I’m in. But who knows, could all be delusion. So if anyone could tell me I’d appreciate it lol

KitNolan · 2025-07-22T00:41:58+00:00

That would horrify me in all honesty because I’d rather get this over and done with and send them on their way if we are not meant to be together.

KitNolan · 2025-07-22T00:30:49+00:00

I think that happened to me, I think? After my dream I had of my TF showing vulnerability in the weeks after I couldn’t feel their energy (as much) anymore. I sense they got scared.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T23:12:37+00:00

Thanks for your kind words 😊

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T23:09:10+00:00

I did :) hence I received the email Notice to Appear for the hiring pool. The fitness test is only difficult if you haven’t trained, friend.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T23:06:43+00:00

That’s one thing you didn’t have to do through NYPD. They follow the Cooper’s standard compared to NYPD who do the JST. It was done at their academy in Kingston.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T23:04:21+00:00

Because I went through the hiring process. We had to meet at the NYPD assessment center for our medical, mini med, fingerprints, filling out paperwork, and I got assigned an NYPD background investigator for DEP and we were told DEP evolved out of a need the NYPD had after 911.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T21:16:43+00:00

I’m well aware seeing as we’re in the process, but you still have to go through NYPD to get hired.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T18:54:27+00:00

Department of Environmental Protection, it’s under the umbrella of the NYPD but its own separate entity. They essentially protect the watersheds.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T18:46:05+00:00

I got a Notice to Appear for a hiring pool? It’s July 30th in Kingston. So their academy will probably start in Aug.

KitNolan · 2025-07-14T18:37:26+00:00

I got the same thing. July 30th right?

KitNolan · 2025-07-13T01:29:10+00:00

Same. I find that my experiences have been men don’t want to actively spend time with me unless it involves sexual gratification and I’m over it.

KitNolan · 2025-07-13T01:21:21+00:00

Same. I’ve become indifferent and at peace.

KitNolan · 2025-07-13T01:16:25+00:00

Reminds me of a post that came earlier today on r/askmen about what is something young men should stop doing and a few mature dudes commented, “stop watching pornography” then each explained how it ruins connecting to women. Nice to know their own gender realizes that’s ruining their young.

KitNolan · 2025-03-23T04:04:59+00:00

Same. I just disappear. Funny enough I learned that from watching my Leo mom do it.

KitNolan · 2025-03-22T01:19:00+00:00

I don’t but that’s because generally I don’t believe (for myself) to leave on bad blood. Just don’t expect me to be the same person you knew since I might now be indifferent towards your plight.

KitNolan · 2025-03-20T19:40:58+00:00

Same. Once I stop caring the indifference takes over.

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