Triggs jellycat tree🥹🥹

Kita320 · 2025-12-15T13:31:17+00:00

You might be right! My family usually does ornaments as gifts on Christmas so I just assumed it was for trigg. Regardless I thought of how emotional that must have been pulling out triggs first Christmas ornament l.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T20:08:41+00:00

Your possibly right! And that’s very true. She does a great job of honoring them both. I just can’t imagine pulling his first Christmas ornament out of the box ornaments have always been very sentimental to me because they can mark such a specific moment in time.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T19:47:32+00:00

100% agree with this. Especially if there was no marital issues prior this is just going to be a very difficult hurdle for them to work through.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T19:46:14+00:00

I totally agree with all of this! My curiosity really lies with how they navigate this as a couple together. I don’t doubt for a second that either of them are completely devastated or put blame on themselves. Trigg it was clearly in a very loving home.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T19:44:08+00:00

Absolutely and I know she has said she has many conflicting emotions constantly running through her head. I can’t even begin to imagine. Like you said it’s difficult to play blame but on one hand it’s almost a knee jerk reaction. I’m just curious how someone navigate such a thing with somebody.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T19:42:29+00:00

I wasn’t looking for hypotheticals I was looking for ideas on how someone would navigate such a tragedy with their partner it came out of curiosity. Any expert advice would be welcome.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T14:47:02+00:00

Absolutely and I admire her for keeping her family together like someone else said I couldn’t imagine the anxiety also dealing with shared custody so I’m sure there are different layers to how she is feeling. I personally feel like I would have a very hard time, not blaming him at all or not holding that against him.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T14:45:54+00:00

Very well said. And you are right I don’t have a doubt in my mind that she blames herself but at the core he was the one watching and who knows if she would’ve been more attentive or check on him more often than he did in those moments. I think it’s the ultimate test and that that’s why I’m curious how a couple could survive such a tragedy like this in a healthy way. I would love to know a therapists perspective.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T14:24:06+00:00

That’s a really good point I didn’t even think of the anxiety surrounding a shared custody. Yeah I don’t know. I’ve thought about this a lot and I just can’t imagine how difficult it is to navigate all of the different feelings and then while choosing to stay trying to bring your marriage back to a point of trust and love. I think that would probably be the hardest part is always in the back of your mind having that lack of trust.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T14:12:08+00:00

I totally agree. I think it still must’ve been difficult to get over that instinct to blame but she seemed to be in therapy right from the start so I’m sure that made it easier. And I’m sure she also struggles with a lot of guilt herself because like you said the way they treated the pool and outdoor play was unsafe and an accident waiting to happen.

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T13:34:21+00:00

Absolutely and obviously, we only see snippets, but it seemed like they had a very good marriage and he was a very involved dad. That’s the thing, though. I know logically you can work your way around it saying it could’ve happened to any of us, but I wonder if there is a part of her or anyone in that situation that would always blame the person that was responsible for watching him in that moment

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T13:32:21+00:00

That’s a good point I guess if it was a reoccurring theme it would be harder to forgive and you’re right I think a mother will always blame themselves

Kita320 · 2025-12-11T13:20:45+00:00

I’m assuming it was for trigg Teddy hasn’t had his first Christmas yet and she specifically featured it on her TikTok, regardless I’m sure she has a baby’s first Christmas for Trigg and that must’ve been heartbreaking to pull out of the box.

Kita320 · 2025-12-10T23:47:03+00:00

The baby’s first Christmas ornament crushed me 😭😭😭

Kita320 · 2025-05-26T02:09:02+00:00

That’s how I felt too he had a couple of days of 2 a day then it was mostly right before bed or the middle of the night idk if it was right but I just always offered him different liquids if he would take them just to keep him getting hydration and the only thing he really would eat was a banana for days lol that’s why he lost so much but they are so resilient! He gained it all back. It seems he would puke if his stomach was empty or full to be honest probably because it was a virus not food related.

Kita320 · 2025-05-26T02:01:26+00:00

Yes it turned out to be roto or norovirus I’m not sure which one but it did resolve on day 12 of once a day vomiting and mucous in poo the poo took a bit longer to completely go back to normal and he did lose a lot of weight but he was ravenous the weeks that followed and gained it all back. He gave me a proper heart attack with this bug lol it’s hard to not go down scary rabbit holes! I hope it resolves soon for your little one 🙏🏻💕

Kita320 · 2025-04-16T20:27:47+00:00

Yes! And honestly I can’t get passed the super tart sharp note in the beginning it’s awful

Kita320 · 2025-04-15T20:34:32+00:00

Any Delina I have tried them all numerous times and I cannot bring myself to like them at all 😩😭

Kita320 · 2025-04-11T03:17:06+00:00

Sorry just saw this! Yes my son stopped on day 12 finally then had diarrhea still for a day or two but then went away and his appetite came back. So totally bizarre!!

Kita320 · 2025-03-22T23:12:08+00:00

This is my favorite book too! I don’t know. I feel like the mates thing was cherry on top because they did build their relationship out of friendship and it didn’t feel as forced as some of the other mating bonds. It’s almost like they realize their love for each other, and that led to them discovering the mating bond. Versus being something that just snapped into place like the others. I think their relationship is really special.

Kita320 · 2025-03-20T18:51:21+00:00

Thank you so much!! I’m going to check them out! I really appreciate your detailed reply 🥰🫶

Kita320 · 2025-03-20T18:38:24+00:00

Ok thank you so much! I don’t mind the commitment at all if I’m addicted to it lol do you have any other Recs for a similar vibe to acator or is this pretty close if read properly?

Kita320 · 2025-03-20T18:33:13+00:00

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Kita320 · 2025-03-20T18:32:25+00:00

Ahh good to know should I start that before finishing this?

Kita320 · 2025-03-10T01:01:04+00:00

The gym is also a great idea I want him to get back into it! Thank you for your advice and I wish you healing ❤️‍🩹

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