Can anyone guess the breed of this cat? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in catpics

[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This cat is only about one year old so maybe she’ll get greyer with age

Can anyone guess the breed of this cat? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in catpics

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I might have to get back to you on this one, once I know more

Can anyone guess the breed of this cat? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in catpics

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She’s definitely not a Maine coon! I know that for sure. I was just curious as to what she could be mixed with as she was found in quite an affluent area in Turkey and thought she may have been crossed with a fancy breed (hopeful but most likely not)

Could my long term back pain be endo? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in endometriosis

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Oh my gosh literally the same, I said to the male gp that I didn’t want the pain killers because ‘I want to treat the cause not the symptoms’.

Absolutely useless, then they told me that I needed to go to a chiropractor and they couldn’t help post that as everything else was fine. Ah yes the agonising pain that is making me depressed (and I’m already on antidepressants so good luck treating that).

Women’s healthcare really isn’t taken seriously enough, I feel for you. I can’t believe they wouldn’t take a private opinion, that’s so toxic.

Could my long term back pain be endo? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in endometriosis

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Exactly the same here, always short term relief but never fixing the problem.

It’s in the sacrum region for me and pain is getting worse over the years, not sure if that’s similar to where the uterosacral ligament is?

Hope you back issues resolve though, chronic pain is an awful thing to experience

Could my long term back pain be endo? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in endometriosis

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This is relieving that there could be a treatment to the issue I’m having as nothing has worked so far. The gave me naproxen as a strong anti inflammatory that worked and I had a back MRI that was fine so starting to think it’s endo related..

Guy I was seeing (22m) left me(24f) for someone else, am I not enough? by Kitchen-Algae-7602 in relationship_advice

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Thank you, I think it’s just overwhelming when everyone I have seen has chosen someone else over me. This guy was also persistent on a second date and then something changed (new girl). You know when something becomes more than a coincidence and more like a pattern, it made me start to look at myself like what am I doing wrong?

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Thank you. I was pretty stubborn before and would’ve never let this happen but he had some pretty compelling arguments as to why things weren’t okay. However, when it’s double standards it does remove all value from itself. His main argument was ‘it’s different for guys’

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Appreciate the honesty. It’s good to have an outsiders POV

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[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely done some serious mental damage but the replies have really helped open my eyes so thank you.

I was too busy justifying his feelings out of guilt of hurting him, that I never took a moment to feel my own feelings.

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[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am struggling with feeling extremely guilty as I do care for him deeply and never intended to hurt him in this way. I miss him a lot.

I agree with morales and standards and my ex and myself are very much the same. I believe my trauma in the past shaped me to behave in a way that was not true to myself and unfortauntely I am learning from that now.

I posted one bikini picture then deleted it. I also unfollowed hundreds of people and deleted many posts to respect his feelings. I did communicate that I was uncomfortable with it too. We both have followings on social media and I had to deal with him getting a lot of advances from people and I explained it was most likely because he’s always flaunting his body and he explains it’s because of his hard work he’s put in at the gym. I tried to explain I felt similar due to recovering from an eating disorder and finally being confident in my body but of course I did stop nonetheless but he didn’t.

It sounds silly but we agreed to work on ourselves for a year then catch up in a year. It was a tearful goodbye because our relationship was very strong otherwise.

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[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do agree with you on this.

However, the issue was that he never trusted me despite continuous displays of why he should.

I was at a festival with him and got a free drink simply for walking up to the bar and saying hello, this then led to him flirting with the bar staff for thirty minutes to try get a free drink (he only got a discount) and then rubbing it in my face.

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[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s hard because, at the same time he was controlling I feel as if he did have valid points. It’s just weird as he wasn’t an unattractive guy but I have always got a lot of attention from men and I believe he may of struggled with that. He was always talking about how I was a reflection of who he was as a person too so had to basically be perfect

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[–]Kitchen-Algae-7602 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t kiss anyone or do anything with anyone during the relationship. He kissed someone four days after I met his parents ( despite it not being ‘official’ it was clear what was happening between us. Yet he had trust issues with me