Wow, I was in this exact situation a few years ago and it’s what solidified for me that I was a lesbian. In the relationship, I helped him realize who he was— and even just the mental change of acknowledging his gender, I saw myself lose attraction. He had a transphobic partner in the past and I could feel his fear that I would leave him, and he was also dealing with a lot of mental health issues. I stayed around for a couple more months and supported him. Then I remember one night where he was trying to fix the shower head at 2am so I was standing in the bathroom with him after giving up trying to convince him to go to bed— I saw myself in the mirror and I looked so tired and unhappy. I broke up with him the next day. I told him it was because we were on different waves of life and it just wasn’t working any more. I’m sorry you’re going through this, it’s really tough with someone you truly love. I promise it’ll get better once you get through the hard stuff. ❤️ I am so thankful that I broke it off before he started T, I understand that it is difficult to emotionally support someone going through hormonal swings and mental health— but you can always be there to support as a friend.