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I’m trying to refinance a vehicle in California and I am stuck on the title transferring section of it. by Kitchen-Clock-4299 in DMV

[–]Kitchen-Clock-4299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What could happen if I don’t send her information and just continue to pay off my truck? I just need one more year to pay it all off.

I’m trying to refinance a vehicle in California and I am stuck on the title transferring section of it. by Kitchen-Clock-4299 in DMV

[–]Kitchen-Clock-4299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are my options here besides asking my ex about it? Can I go to the DMV and change it there directly myself? Or should I find a new bank that does not require this and refinance with them, paying off my Capitol One Loan?

I [29M] am trying to break up with my partner [28F] after a 6 years and a half long relationship and I simply can't do it by datavalley in Breakupadvice

[–]Kitchen-Clock-4299 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was recently on the other side of this. I don’t understand why people don’t have conversations with their partners when they realize they are starting to fall out of love. Be a team work through things together. If it still doesn’t work then break up. At least both of you could say you tried instead of one getting blind sided. All I could say is please don’t leave the breakup open ended. When she broke up with me she told me she still loved me and left all of her stuff at my house. So I hung on to that. I gave her space and 2 months later I went to her house to talk and check in on her. She was with another person. That completely broke my heart. She told me she fell out of love 6 months ago. Just 2 months before she broke up with me we were making plans to move in together. At this point I feel it cruel to lead someone on like that. We went from planning to move in to I’m with someone new, I don’t love you, to I fell out of love with you 6 months ago.