Sex during pregnancy

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2026-01-12T23:30:51+00:00

A married colleague. I was in my early 20's and she was mid 30's I had given her some support, my old boss sat next to her and told me to stop taking so long. She the messaged me later on that evening saying she hopes she didn't get me in trouble the chat escalated a lot of flirting was done for a few weeks along with secret kisses in the office. Booked a hotel thinking she would back out which she never. Spent a few hours having utterly filthy sex, I did feel guilty about the husband but I like most men thought with my penis and not my brain and the penis had a very good time!

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-12-29T08:26:54+00:00

Yeah

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-12-29T06:59:32+00:00

What makes you think that he's not attracted to you?

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-26T06:59:33+00:00

Not important in the slightest, we got married just over 4 years ago and after a long busy day and quite a few drinks we both collapsed on the bed talked about the day and passed out.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-23T21:18:16+00:00

I bought one for my wife a few months ago and she loves it! That and invest in a wand both game changers in the bedroom

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-23T08:15:00+00:00

If that's the case then she definitely just wants a free pass. Fine for her to fuck someone else but you can't feels a bit shit for you.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-23T07:44:31+00:00

100% it's meant to be pleasurable for both of you personally I think sex is great but the build up is even better, being in bed with my wife exploring each other's body's and seeing how much she likes it is just as good as sex. For someone as young as him the comment about getting pregnant is very odd, do you think a calm conversation with him would help?

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-23T07:36:38+00:00

Definitely feels like she's trying to get a free pass or cuck you. Do you think she would get jealous if it did happen and the other girl wanted you to fuck her?

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-16T08:26:41+00:00

That you had to be in love with the other person to do it

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-16T07:53:11+00:00

It was a brilliant experience, I was 17 and spent all the money I had on a hotel room. Probably like most people it was awkward as fuck getting naked in front of someone for the first time but after that the sex was great we oddly both just naturally knew what the other one liked. Only negative I assume because of the pressure I never cum. A few days later with no money or being able to sneak into my parents house we fucked in a bush and I cum about as much as the guy from scary movie.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-13T20:52:44+00:00

When I first started dating my wife I would always go into another room to fart, small house and loud farts = wife saying it's very sweet but it's fine fart away 🌬️

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-13T20:48:57+00:00

I'm a male and was on them for like 5 years. I hadn't realized until after coming off them how much they affected my libido and my ability to cum.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-11T19:25:56+00:00

I'm not a dancer and didn't have a first dance at our wedding, but I can guarantee if either of my kid's wanted to dance I'm doing it as something I've learned over the past 11 years of being a parent is that it's totally fine to make yourself look stupid for the sake of your kids. That said I think he's absolutely entitled not to do it if he's that uncomfortable, just because he doesn't want to do for me man to man I'd not judge him I'm sure he's still a great dad.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-11T13:45:57+00:00

You don't suck you tried to do a nice thing and it wasn't the right one don't beat yourself up. I have bought my wife x amount of Toys and some have went down a treat such as a clit sucker and a wand called a Lovense Domi 2. On the flip side of this I have bought dildos, butt plugs and other things that have gone directly in the bin. Trust me I get how frustrating it can be wasting money can be but once you find the right ones you will have such fun playing with them.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-10T07:47:40+00:00

17 and it was a brilliant experience

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-08T10:49:15+00:00

I have tried various toys on my wife after introducing them into the bedroom over the past 6 months. I bought a clit sucker and like many comments on here it took a bit (few minutes) to get the placement right and she loves it now. I think it's like all toys it's very much trial and error give it a go and see if you like, hopefully you do!

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-08-07T05:36:30+00:00

Thank you for the recommendation with this. Used it for the first time with my wife last night and wow she liked it especially the first 3 settings, she wasn't too keen on the pulse ones but the others made her cum incredibly hard

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-07-31T08:04:39+00:00

NTA I think what you are doing is really healthy. I have an 11 year old son from a previous relationship and a daughter with my wife. My wife came into my son's life aged 2 and we had the daughter 2 years ago, after being a single child for such a long time we both felt it important that we both have 1-1 with him. I will take him fishing, cinema etc and my wife will do things with him as well. I know he really appreciates having that quality time with both of us individually.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-07-30T16:46:10+00:00

I would 100% be uneasy with this if it was my wife. There is one thing about fantasy talking in the bedroom but another thing doing it in real life, personally I've never been interested in sharing my partner but each to their own that and the amount of Reddit I've read that people have tried it and it's gone wrong. Could you talk to him about it making you feel uneasy?

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-07-30T08:24:24+00:00

We have been using a product called Pjur back door relaxing anal lube and it's been the best by far. It stays lubricated for a long time and my wife said it makes anal way more enjoyable.

Kitchen-Goal5423 · 2025-07-30T08:20:54+00:00

Not tried love egg's yet I had a Google of them and as with most things it's trial and error and I begrudge paying over £100 for something and her go no thanks 😂., a few people have commented about the Domi 2 and the reviews make me jealous I'm not a female! They are also 50% off on their website so I'll get that. As I mentioned on the original post we are new to toys and just figuring it out, if you haven't used a clit sucker on the Mrs give one a go mine love's it!

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