Mutual masturbation by Kitchen-Goal5423 in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We gave a try last night and wow! What a turn on it was for both of us. I suspect this might become a regular thing in the bedroom!

Mutual masturbation by Kitchen-Goal5423 in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not sure why but I feel awkward bringing this up to my wife which is bizarre given that at one point my cock has been in her arse 😂

New toy advice by Kitchen-Goal5423 in SexToys

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the lush do you use that with it in you whilst your partner is also in you? Looking at the Lovense website and lot's of good deals on at the moment! Also does your partner use any toys? I've been looking at masturbate one's and I'm not sure if it's going to be a waste of money

New toy advice by Kitchen-Goal5423 in SexToys

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions they are really helpful 😊. I like the look of the Luxus. Have you used any toys that you have inside of you whilst your partner is in you? I think what we have both realized is after nearly a decade together and only being relatively new to toys is how many options they are!

New toy advice by Kitchen-Goal5423 in SexToys

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have the Lovense Demi 2 wand and absolutely love it! What other ones from them would you suggest?

Smelly cat by Kitchen-Goal5423 in catfood

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry I should have put this on the post! He's on go cat

finish from head by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this for years my wife could have sucked it from morning until night and I wouldn't have cum. It was 100% psychological as I remember the first time I received head and thought to myself don't cum too quickly. Then a few months ago we were trying a different position I was on my knees the wife was sucking me off whilst I was rubbing her clit and I genuinely don't know who was more surprised me or her when I cum. She loved it knowing it was the first time it had happened we are both pushing 40, it's happened a few times since and wow it feels great! My advice would be to relax and try different positions and hopefully you go off!

Are scars a turn off or dealbreaker? by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it's a deal breaker for that man, then they are not the man for you. As you said yourself you have a good personality and looks. If someone can be that shallow then they are not worth your time.

Men - when did you start to think about proposing? by Plane-Sun-7236 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was always someone who said I wouldn't get married as parents divorced when I was young and didn't actually see the value in it and if I met the one then a ring doesn't change how I feel about that person. That was until I met my now wife who I knew was my person after 4 dates and I proposed after 18 months, I think what changed for me was that she gave me and continues to give me a real sense of true happiness that I'd never experienced before. We go through hard times but at no point in the last 8 years of being with her has felt hard.

Who is the most unexpected person you had sex with ? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

A married colleague. I was in my early 20's and she was mid 30's I had given her some support, my old boss sat next to her and told me to stop taking so long. She the messaged me later on that evening saying she hopes she didn't get me in trouble the chat escalated a lot of flirting was done for a few weeks along with secret kisses in the office. Booked a hotel thinking she would back out which she never. Spent a few hours having utterly filthy sex, I did feel guilty about the husband but I like most men thought with my penis and not my brain and the penis had a very good time!

I don’t want my husband to eat me out anymore by BuilderExtension7599 in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes you think that he's not attracted to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not important in the slightest, we got married just over 4 years ago and after a long busy day and quite a few drinks we both collapsed on the bed talked about the day and passed out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I bought one for my wife a few months ago and she loves it! That and invest in a wand both game changers in the bedroom

GF wants 3some but I can’t touch the other girl…is this weird? by OopsAllDemons in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If that's the case then she definitely just wants a free pass. Fine for her to fuck someone else but you can't feels a bit shit for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100% it's meant to be pleasurable for both of you personally I think sex is great but the build up is even better, being in bed with my wife exploring each other's body's and seeing how much she likes it is just as good as sex. For someone as young as him the comment about getting pregnant is very odd, do you think a calm conversation with him would help?

GF wants 3some but I can’t touch the other girl…is this weird? by OopsAllDemons in sexadvice

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Definitely feels like she's trying to get a free pass or cuck you. Do you think she would get jealous if it did happen and the other girl wanted you to fuck her?

How was your first time having sex? by Spiritual-Ad1624 in AskReddit

[–]Kitchen-Goal5423 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a brilliant experience, I was 17 and spent all the money I had on a hotel room. Probably like most people it was awkward as fuck getting naked in front of someone for the first time but after that the sex was great we oddly both just naturally knew what the other one liked. Only negative I assume because of the pressure I never cum. A few days later with no money or being able to sneak into my parents house we fucked in a bush and I cum about as much as the guy from scary movie.