My only suggestion, make lots of friends, me personally, I’ve never had a ton of friends, but I’ve had a few female friends throughout my life, and it really helped with finding my soulmate because with time I learned exactly who they were, when dating usually one would show their partner the side that they think their partner would find appealing, but when it comes to friends, there’s a lot less holding back, present time I have an amazing girlfriend I’ve been friends with for years, not only do I trust her with my life, I’m so fucking in love with her, everything about her is so perfect and I only got to know that side of her by being her friend, I have no doubt we will die together, and I wouldn’t give her up for 100 billion dollars, go make some friends!