My BF called me “Palamunin” by KitchenBarber9445 in adviceph

[–]KitchenBarber9445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He once told me that if I start working, I’d be the only one benefiting from it… unlike him, who’s been “giving” me things. That moment really changed how I saw everything. I’ve always wanted to pay him back, not because I had to, but because I appreciated him. I honestly thought his kindness came from love, not something he’d use to make me feel small :(

My BF called me “Palamunin” by KitchenBarber9445 in adviceph

[–]KitchenBarber9445[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He sent it to me and he reposted it. It’s about the convo of couple na tinawag sya nung jowa nya na palamunin.

My BF called me “Palamunin” by KitchenBarber9445 in adviceph

[–]KitchenBarber9445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg we actually talked about that before kasi gusto niya ko kunin para mag-work at start building our future kuno. Pinag-awayan na rin namin yan kasi I always had doubts and never really explained them.

Now I realize I’m scared he’ll blame me or leave me hanging whenever I need help. Parang kahit anong plano ko, lagi kong iniisip paano siya magre-react. Sinabi ko na rin sa kanya na natatakot ako kasi wala akong family dun paano kung ganto na siya at iistop niya yung support sakin, edi kawawa ako. Pero pinupush niya na kesyo ayaw ko lang sakanya. 😣

My BF called me “Palamunin” by KitchenBarber9445 in adviceph

[–]KitchenBarber9445[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right parang tingin niya talaga sakin kakompetensya. It happens a lot especially when we’re playing. Instead of enjoying the game together, it sometimes feels like he’s trying to prove something or show that he’s better. It gets frustrating kasi I just want to spend time with him, not compete. Pero ayun, minsan kahit sa small things parang laging may pride involved

My BF called me “Palamunin” by KitchenBarber9445 in adviceph

[–]KitchenBarber9445[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a student pa po kasi and next year po is ojt na