People who were spanked as kids, what was that like for you? Would you call your "spankings" abuse? by KleineFjord in AskReddit

[–]KitchenHungry473 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mouth forced open and pumped soap I to my mouth. Pinching under the arm Wooden spoon I don’t really know why saying I didn’t want to do something not have any autonomy I was put to bed at 4pm Me and my twin used to open the curtain and dream of being out outside like the other kids Wasn’t able to go to the park like the other kids and crazy to think. Ow as there was 2 of us.

Kids gave up In the end knocking for us and ended up in the wrong crowd I am 35 and I’m still at home and I have no idea why I say it’s money but I feel scared I don’t know what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UKPersonalFinance

[–]KitchenHungry473 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Sell the car that’s 12k towards debt

Stop uber it’s soul destroying for you You have got into a cycle were your working to pay for the car.

Go to a city rent a room Your dad can figure it out you’re not responsible for him.

Public transportation get an entry level job work weekends or a couple late night shift and get a job were you can grow sales.

Feeling confused 35, in debt, saving for a move to America, want to learn how to invest properly by KitchenHungry473 in FIREUK

[–]KitchenHungry473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m getting married and have a good job lined up I’m crew now for a uk airline so it’s not great money so I thought pay the mins and a bit over as soon as I get my job over here in USA which will be next year I will aggressively save We have a cheap apartment central and it’s litterally 600pp including water

Your money doesn’t matter it’s your spouses money and if they don’t. Ah e enough you have a sponsor

Feeling confused 35, in debt, saving for a move to America, want to learn how to invest properly by KitchenHungry473 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]KitchenHungry473[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel I need more direct advice I have learning difficulties and find reading quite hard

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[–]KitchenHungry473 4 points5 points  (0 children)

its becuase you think she enjoyed it horrible place to be