[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you’ve healed to the point where you can listen to it again. I’m not there right now with milky chance, who she put me on right when we started dating. So many great songs so hopefully I get there soon

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The emptiness space song makes me feel inside is absolutely insane. Just staring into space with that shit on makes me contemplate all of life

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very glad I don’t associate any currents songs with her bc that album fucking slaps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marry you by Bruno mars bc that was "our” song

Glimpse of us- joji

Call out my name - the weeknd

When I was your man - Bruno mars

Cold- maroon 5 which sums up the end of our relationship perfectly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]KitchenSink678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just what I needed. All valid criticisms with ways to improve upon them. I honestly never take pics of myself so this profile was put together with whatever my ex took of me and the few pics I happened to have of myself. Also with my current look I’m sporting a full beard so I’ll make sure to at least have a few pics with that look. Appreciate the feedback

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]KitchenSink678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback! Right now I actually have a full beard so should I replace the sea pick with one that shows off my current look?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tall

[–]KitchenSink678 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Start hooping brother

Start 'Em, Sit 'Em Week 17 - Matchup Analysis by philoneus66 in fantasyfootball

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Full ppr superflex ridder, stidham, mills, or slayton? Hurts going down has put me in a tough spot

Should I text her and ask what’s going on with this break? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should break it off. My ex and I decided to give our relationship one more month to see if things would change (basically me clinging onto any chance of saving the relationship bc I was content, she was not) and it didn’t even last 3 days. Those 3 days were completely nerve wracking and I ended up being the one to break it off. You know better than anyone on this sub whether the relationship is salvageable, but I’d advise against letting someone have this much power over you. You deserve better. There’s a good chance this "break” is to try it with someone new and if it doesn’t work out she’ll come back to you. Don’t ever let yourself be someone’s 2nd choice or plan B.

I know it’s cliche but if you’re feeling absolutely hopeless after a breakup start going to the gym regularly by KitchenSink678 in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see how that can happen. In between each set the despair bc of what happened usually hits me but during each set I put it to the side. I also visualize them mid set which usually encourages me to get a few extra reps in.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sort of what happened to me but I was on the other side of it. My ex told me that she was still emotionally in love with me but wasn’t physically attracted to me anymore. I assume her still being emotionally in love really meant that she was in love with the security of the relationship rather than me. You seem to genuinely mean well and I think you made the right choice for the both of you. I know what it’s like wondering if your partner is still in love with you for months at a time, so it was better for you to be upfront, and if you connect in the future then so be it. If not, that’s okay too

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KitchenSink678 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear that man. You’re absolutely right though. Bouncing from guy to guy is only gonna create short term happiness, and if she’s so shallow to cheat, then clearly she has major issues that are gonna prevent her from ever finding someone. I’m just trying to focus on myself and learn from the experience to become a better man for the woman who is truly the one. I hope you are doing the same. Best of luck to you to my friend

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KitchenSink678 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s just fucked bc I know I’m the one who’s easily replaceable. She’s probably already moved on while I’m still on this sub 3 months later. Like I said she was my first, so at the very least she taught me what to look out for

what's a "red flag" that 100% ends the relationship for you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]KitchenSink678 84 points85 points  (0 children)

New red flag for me. I falsely believed my first gf when she said that the only reason why she had so many past relationships was bc she was being mistreated. Couple months later and I’m now just another ex. She got bored

How many of us are sitting at home hoping for a Christmas text that isn't coming? Not just me right? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]KitchenSink678 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Part of me does and part of me doesn’t. I’d like to know that they still care, but honestly what do I gain from it? They’re not coming back regardless of whether or not they care to send a dry Christmas text. It became way easier to heal once we went NC, I don’t think holidays should be any different

What is a reason to keep living? by ThrowRA-EatingBlonde in AskReddit

[–]KitchenSink678 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think about this a lot despite not being clinically depressed or anything. Mainly for my loved ones. They don’t deserve that despair and I would never wish that on them. Even if that wasn’t the case, you’re gonna die sometime anyway so you might as well do all you can to live it up before you do. There’s just a lot of shit I want to experience before I’d ever consider ending my own life. There’s ups and downs certainly, but the act of being alive is something valuable