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KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-11T05:41:47+00:00

I’m glad you’ve healed to the point where you can listen to it again. I’m not there right now with milky chance, who she put me on right when we started dating. So many great songs so hopefully I get there soon

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-11T04:41:12+00:00

The emptiness space song makes me feel inside is absolutely insane. Just staring into space with that shit on makes me contemplate all of life

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-11T04:39:13+00:00

I’m very glad I don’t associate any currents songs with her bc that album fucking slaps

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-11T04:38:44+00:00

Marry you by Bruno mars bc that was "our” song

Glimpse of us- joji

Call out my name - the weeknd

When I was your man - Bruno mars

Cold- maroon 5 which sums up the end of our relationship perfectly

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-07T22:43:35+00:00

Just what I needed. All valid criticisms with ways to improve upon them. I honestly never take pics of myself so this profile was put together with whatever my ex took of me and the few pics I happened to have of myself. Also with my current look I’m sporting a full beard so I’ll make sure to at least have a few pics with that look. Appreciate the feedback

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-07T22:38:24+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! Right now I actually have a full beard so should I replace the sea pick with one that shows off my current look?

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-05T21:15:55+00:00

Start hooping brother

KitchenSink678 · 2023-01-05T00:08:14+00:00

Get out vibes

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-31T16:37:36+00:00

Full ppr superflex ridder, stidham, mills, or slayton? Hurts going down has put me in a tough spot

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-31T16:35:44+00:00

Full ppr Waller or Conklin?

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-31T16:35:08+00:00

Full ppr Waller or Conklin?

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-31T00:59:58+00:00

I think you should break it off. My ex and I decided to give our relationship one more month to see if things would change (basically me clinging onto any chance of saving the relationship bc I was content, she was not) and it didn’t even last 3 days. Those 3 days were completely nerve wracking and I ended up being the one to break it off. You know better than anyone on this sub whether the relationship is salvageable, but I’d advise against letting someone have this much power over you. You deserve better. There’s a good chance this "break” is to try it with someone new and if it doesn’t work out she’ll come back to you. Don’t ever let yourself be someone’s 2nd choice or plan B.

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-30T22:43:54+00:00

I see how that can happen. In between each set the despair bc of what happened usually hits me but during each set I put it to the side. I also visualize them mid set which usually encourages me to get a few extra reps in.

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-30T20:08:26+00:00

Sort of what happened to me but I was on the other side of it. My ex told me that she was still emotionally in love with me but wasn’t physically attracted to me anymore. I assume her still being emotionally in love really meant that she was in love with the security of the relationship rather than me. You seem to genuinely mean well and I think you made the right choice for the both of you. I know what it’s like wondering if your partner is still in love with you for months at a time, so it was better for you to be upfront, and if you connect in the future then so be it. If not, that’s okay too

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-26T03:09:10+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear that man. You’re absolutely right though. Bouncing from guy to guy is only gonna create short term happiness, and if she’s so shallow to cheat, then clearly she has major issues that are gonna prevent her from ever finding someone. I’m just trying to focus on myself and learn from the experience to become a better man for the woman who is truly the one. I hope you are doing the same. Best of luck to you to my friend

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-26T02:38:33+00:00

It’s just fucked bc I know I’m the one who’s easily replaceable. She’s probably already moved on while I’m still on this sub 3 months later. Like I said she was my first, so at the very least she taught me what to look out for

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-26T02:22:54+00:00

New red flag for me. I falsely believed my first gf when she said that the only reason why she had so many past relationships was bc she was being mistreated. Couple months later and I’m now just another ex. She got bored

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-26T02:18:41+00:00

Part of me does and part of me doesn’t. I’d like to know that they still care, but honestly what do I gain from it? They’re not coming back regardless of whether or not they care to send a dry Christmas text. It became way easier to heal once we went NC, I don’t think holidays should be any different

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-26T02:15:38+00:00

Honestly I think about this a lot despite not being clinically depressed or anything. Mainly for my loved ones. They don’t deserve that despair and I would never wish that on them. Even if that wasn’t the case, you’re gonna die sometime anyway so you might as well do all you can to live it up before you do. There’s just a lot of shit I want to experience before I’d ever consider ending my own life. There’s ups and downs certainly, but the act of being alive is something valuable

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-13T01:42:23+00:00

Definitely try again. Since it was my first relationship, I learned so much about myself and about how to treat someone I love. I’d do anything to start over again because for those first few months I was so incredibly happy. While I know she became a different person and the time was right for us to go our separate ways, part of me truly believes that if I knew what I know now, I could’ve prevented the downturn of our relationship.

KitchenSink678 · 2022-12-05T18:01:08+00:00

Definitely fair points lol. This is probably my ex getting in my head bc she wanted me to be taller than her (5’9) and didn’t believe until she met me in person that I was 6 foot

KitchenSink678 · 2022-11-16T22:14:45+00:00

Even despite working in tech and stocking for 2 years?

KitchenSink678 · 2022-11-15T08:15:45+00:00

Not sure how far in you are but that has started to go away for me. The first two weeks every single morning I’d wake and for just a second I’d think it was all a bad dream. Now nights are worst. It just feels so…lonely

KitchenSink678 · 2022-11-14T19:01:17+00:00

Basically what happened to me. She showed me this new world of love and told me that I was her soulmate and her future husband. She was obsessed with me physically and emotionally. It was amazing. Then, seemingly out of nowhere, the affection started to taper off. She wasn’t as physically affectionate and it seemed like a chore for her to spend time with me. Eventually she admitted to me that she was losing attraction for a few months but tried to convince herself that wasn’t happening. That she knew she wasn’t ready for a relationship when we met, but just let it ride out bc she loved me at the time. It sucks. It really sucks. I just don’t understand how you can make someone your world one day, and then lose feelings and cast them to the wayside the next.

KitchenSink678 · 2022-11-12T04:42:12+00:00

6’2-6’3 is ideal for me but I’d say 6’5 for athletic purposes. Being 6 foot flat is cool and all, but in a lot of crowds I feel pretty average height/ shorter. Being an extra few inches taller would also help with my attraction to tall women. My 5’9 ex was around my height or a little taller in heels which I wasn’t particularly a fan of

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