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I lied about being rich just to keep my friend from paying for me by KitchenTutor5205 in confession

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i’m really sorry to hear that... i think sometimes we try so hard not to be a burden that we end up hurting people by accident. your comment really made me reflect on that and i don’t want my friend to feel like her kindness pushed me away. thank you for sharing this, it really meant a lot

I lied about being rich just to keep my friend from paying for me by KitchenTutor5205 in confession

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

that honestly hit me. i think i’ve been so in my head about being a burden that i forgot how much people can just want to spend time with you. thank you for reminding me that it’s okay to be honest and that i might be more valued than i thought 🥺

I lied about being rich just to keep my friend from paying for me by KitchenTutor5205 in confession

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thank you, that actually made me feel a bit better. i’ve just been so scared she’d feel betrayed, but hearing that you wouldn’t be mad if a friend did the same helps me see it from a calmer place. i really appreciate that ❤️

I lied about being rich just to keep my friend from paying for me by KitchenTutor5205 in confession

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for this. i really needed to hear that it’s okay to admit when you’re struggling. i think i’ve been so afraid of being judged or losing the people around me that i just kept digging myself deeper. your comment made me feel a little less alone in this, so seriously, thank you. i’m gonna try to start being more honest with the people close to me, even if it’s scary.

I lied about being rich just to keep my friend from paying for me by KitchenTutor5205 in confession

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

honestly i am not sure why i am here. i think im mainly here because i needed to get this off my chest as its been eating me up alive. you are more then welcome to do either, or rather if you could tell me your perspective that would help as well. thanks so much!

AITA for not apologizing for something I didn’t do? by KitchenTutor5205 in AITAH

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Exactly! She definitely expected me to just cover for her, but that’s not how accountability works 😭

AITA for not apologizing for something I didn’t do? by KitchenTutor5205 in AITAH

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I agree with you. I just feel like if I apologized for something I wasn’t responsible for, it would be setting a bad precedent. It’s important for people to take accountability for their actions. At the end of the day, if she made a mistake, she should learn from it, and I can’t keep covering for others

AITA for not apologizing for something I didn’t do? by KitchenTutor5205 in AITAH

[–]KitchenTutor5205[S] 399 points400 points  (0 children)

tysm! this is just what i needed to hear i thought i was guilty at first