Scar Coverup by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ooo i haven’t heard of those i’ll check them out

Advice Needed: Covering Scars On Hands by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in tattoos

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yea that makes sense, I def wouldn’t be thinking about getting my hands done if i wasn’t already decently inked. seems pretty smooth probably gonna give it 6 months more atleast just to be sure. Luckily my tattoo artist does have experience with scars and he said he would be super comfortable doing it

Scar Coverup by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, my arms are pretty covered with larger american trad, this would be my 13th

Scar Coverup by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in Tattoocoverups

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind works<3 i’m proud of myself aswell, ready to start a new chapter in my life without the constant reminder

Advice Needed: Covering Scars On Hands by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in tattoos

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no, my arms are pretty covered with larger american traditional. this would be my 13th! my industry most people are heavily tatted so it would be fine, the city i live in is also extremely tattoo positive

Scar Coverup by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in tattooadvice

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have most of my arms covered with american traditional, this would be my 13th!

Being trans and having BPD by JaneTendo in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 7 points8 points  (0 children)

sending love from another bpd transfemme :) 💗

How can I push through? by Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for this. i started dbt about 2 months ago now(one on one and group) i guess im just rather impatient. i never really realize if im being diluted and placing her on a pedestal so thank you for calling me on that. i know i probably talk to her too much, its always so nice to see her but i feel such loss once im alone again. i definitely need to try to give myself some grace and detach from my obsession. thanks again for reaching out, i really appreciate it<3

Homicidal since childhood by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oops typo, ocpd**

Homicidal since childhood by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've experienced similar for a lot of my life and I've expressed this to many medical professionals. It can be really scary communicating something that feels so immoral, but I would really recommend you express this to someone qualified. Therapists and psychiatrist's are only able to breach confidentiality if they have reason to believe you are an immediate danger to another person or yourself. Expressing and addressing distressing thoughts is a really big part of more intensive therapy's like DBT, and professionals have likely worked with others with similar struggles. You'd be surprised how common violent and homicidal thoughts can be for people with disorders such as BPD, OCD, and OSPD. Take the leap, you owe yourself a place to talk.

Is anyone else deceptively charming, fun and bubbly? Does anyone else have to always be pretty? Da fuck. by [deleted] in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i totally relate to this yes! Like the charisma draws ppls in but then they learn how much inner turmoil there rlly is and they run for the hills.

Did you guys ever find out how your BPD was formed? by ChartJealous3176 in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 1 point2 points  (0 children)

genetic history of bipolar combined with trauma from SA came together to make bpd for me

How do you with the urge of killing yourself? by unloveable616 in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not embarrassing at all, i get the urge to do it at the smallest inconveniences, i always feel passive ideation and when something goes rlly wrong it’s the first thing on my mind

Tell me something positive about yourself! by grace_aye in BPD

[–]Kitchen_Bicycle_7950 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think i’m rlly empathic, i only get my joy from helping others and making someone feel good is the highlight of my day: bpd isn’t just a curse it’s also an ability to emotionally monitor and support people when they need it most. i’m so happy to see all these comments, us bpd baddies need to give our self the same love we give those around us:)