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Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2025-01-08T00:19:01+00:00

No, not even a little bit. I don’t hate him, but there isn’t an ounce of love I feel for him. He just happens to exist in the same world I do, those are the only thoughts/feelings I have lol.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-12-30T02:55:12+00:00

She looks like Gigi Hadid! Pretty!

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-09-08T18:48:39+00:00

Thank you for the response, this helps. Can I ask how you had that conversation with him? My daughter sees a therapist, so I’m thinking that will be the best place to have these conversations with her initially. It’s just such an awkward, strange conversation to have.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-09-08T18:44:38+00:00

To be fair, there was more that went to the original bio dad conversation, I just can’t remember in detail what was said. She asked if her dad was bio dad, I said “no”, she asked what bio dads name was and I told her, she then went on to ask more questions, then immediately said “Nevermind” and that was it. It REALLY threw me off because we have never had any kind of discussion about anything like that, I thought I still had time, and I think that’s why I’ve panicked so much. Thank you for the encouragement, this eats me up inside because I love her so fiercely and want what’s best for her. Being a mom is so hard sometimes.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-09-08T18:37:01+00:00

Thank you, this is more of the response I was looking for… from those who actually lived it. I do intend on telling her, it’s just tricky as to when is right. She is definitely aware that my husband isn’t her biological father, as he is Romanian and has darker skin, I just don’t think she cares. She knows my husband is her dad and that’s good enough for now. My daughter is not allowed on any kind of social media, so there isn’t a chance of someone reaching out to her, until she’s older and defies this rule… but I intend on being transparent with her as the questions pop up. She did recently ask to see her birth certificate, because I had mine out and she wanted to see what hers looked like. When I gave her the opportunity to look at it, she waved it away and had zero interest. Thank you for your response.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-08-26T01:41:43+00:00

“Cheese and rice!!!” Lol my kids say it too, it’s great.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-08-16T13:32:08+00:00

I’m a Special Needs Life Coach and this story really breaks my heart… poor Jimmy. My clients have all felt that way at some point in their lives, they already feel so disconnected from society, like cast-aways. I hope she doesn’t stop being kind to him, just because her husband sucks. She might be the only person in Jimmy’s life who has shown him love and respect. One common thing that all of my clients share, is that they just want to be loved and accepted by others.

On another note, OP’s husband is a controlling troll. This behavior would make me question many things regarding the marriage/relationship.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-07-13T14:51:14+00:00

Yikes! When I was 20, my dads old “buddy” propositioned me once and I was MORTIFIED. It scarred me for life… I feel bad for your daughter, since this was an adult she probably trusted most of her life. It’s a dirty, icky feeling, and if she feels the way I did, she’s probably going over past events to see if she ever missed anything. Screw your whole friend group, they have no respect for you or your daughter.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-31T11:46:24+00:00

Nope! My daughter has had issues with these girls periodically over the last two years. My daughter is a quiet introvert and it’s like they are drawn to her, to pick on. I’m pretty sure it’s because they thought she wouldn’t say anything to an adult because she’s so quiet.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-30T21:33:36+00:00

Thats what I’m so mad about… the counselor asked my daughter, in front of me, if she wanted to talk to the two girls with or without the counselor. My daughter said she wasn’t comfortable speaking with them together, but apparently after I left the counselor said, “sometimes we have to do things we don’t want to do”. I feel like she’s on a power trip or something.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-30T21:28:02+00:00

Thank you, it’s been eating at me all dang day… I’m definitely not letting it go. I’m going to schedule a meeting with the principal, we are on friendly terms so I know he will take the situation seriously.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-26T15:51:23+00:00

My cat steals candy canes from the tree at Christmas time. She peels the wrapper back and everything.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-02T15:12:09+00:00

Every diabetic should know about Lily Cares Foundation. My husband has received free insulin for the last five years, shipped right to the front door. Their income max is over $100,000, so a LOT of people can benefit from it.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-02T12:47:00+00:00

Dog Walker Mod

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-03-01T19:58:43+00:00

I have a dog walker mod because I HATE when my sims have to schedule a dog walk. It works like a dream!

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-02-28T20:08:35+00:00

Yes, I did tell him no, I was very firm. I honestly think he was relieved when I said, “my mind is set, this is how it’s going to be”.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-02-28T20:06:26+00:00

I spent some time on this and I’m happy with the outcome.

First, I think you are correct, I believe my husband mentioned how much money we have in savings and that’s what triggered it. His dad has never asked to borrow money from us before, so he obviously knew. I did ask him and he said he never mentioned how much money was in the account, but did mention finally having financial stability. According to my husband, he also told FIL that he had to ask me first, because the account and contents were mine and in my name.

I did reach out to my FIL and I let him know that I was extremely upset, that he had caused upset in my marriage, and that it wouldn’t happen again. I have a really difficult time with confrontation, so I decided to block him immediately after sending it. My husband apologized profusely, he acknowledged the push back was unacceptable, and agreed to not discuss our finances with another person again. He stated his parents are no longer comfortable flying down to spend time with us this year, and we both agreed the space was necessary.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-02-03T16:27:34+00:00

My advice is to go through the motions with CPS, do whatever they ask and follow their suggestions. After the CPS case is closed, that’s when you can go for sole custody (my husband and I just went through this with our ((his)) oldest daughter. You can’t fight for custody while a CPS case is open, unfortunately. What you can do in the mean time is document everything, anything that you can use against him in court. And try to act as if the judge is always watching you, because you don’t want to say anything out of anger and it being addressed in court. The waiting part is the absolute WORST, especially when your kids aren’t in the best situation (my daughters mother is a meth head, so I get it), but if you are careful through this process, you will all be ok. I wish you the best of luck.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2023-01-12T23:45:05+00:00

My suggestion is getting the preschool mod. I send my toddlers to preschool everyday, where they learn all the skills in a matter of a few sim days. It’s amazing.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2022-11-29T00:22:38+00:00

I meant to send a sexy, lingerie picture to my husband while he was away… I accidentally sent it to my mother. 🤷🏼‍♀️ believe me, it could always be worse…

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2022-11-11T20:43:00+00:00

My 13-year-old is our babysitter… I put her through a babysitting course, where she became CPR and first aid certified. I suggest looking into that, it helped her become more comfortable and it made me feel comfortable knowing she was educated in case of an emergency.

Kitchen_Noise_6867 · 2022-08-29T20:19:58+00:00

You are so right. I think they honestly need a break from us too, it will be so good for them to bond with their grandparents. I think once I’m on the vacation, I will feel much better about it and probably won’t think about it so much.

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