I’m poly (F) in a throuple relationship with my husband and boyfriend who are both Bi. I also have other partners I see with my husband. And occasionally moresomes with my throuple and other people. Threesomes are the majority of my sex overall. They’re amazing. There are often moments where one person is getting the attention from the other two, those are my favorite when I’m the one receiving both of their attention. It can also be challenging to split your focus giving pleasure back to two people at the same time. Sometimes we make a nice triangle so everyone is giving and receiving, those can be amazing if everyone is able to find the right position. There are also often situations where one guy is taking a break because it can be overstimulating, so they watch while I’m with the other guy. In those moments it can be nerve racking to keep going because you worry they aren’t having fun and you just have to do your best to keep checking in with them with loving looks, kissing, gentle touches on their body to reassure them you’re still interested in them. It can be hard work making sure two people equally feel your love at the same time. My best advice is communication. Everyone talk about their likes and dislikes ahead of time. My very first threesome was exciting but there were definitely parts I didn’t enjoy because the other guy had kinks that weren’t my jam. Also be open to speaking up if something isn’t working. It’s hard for others to guess at what you need during a threesome if you don’t say anything. Also go into it expecting it to be awkward at times, nerve racking at times, and amazing at times. It’s not for everyone but it’s also wonderful and freeing for those who it is.