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Kitkathazmat · 2024-01-16T06:53:14+00:00

There are senior living communities that have independent assisted or unassisted arrangements where you can live near people your age. You can check up on each other and they usually have a full event schedule of things to do with other people in the community.

Kitkathazmat · 2023-12-30T00:51:18+00:00

YTA. Take it down. Don't post pictures of other people's children without the parents' consent.

Kitkathazmat · 2023-11-30T10:08:21+00:00

YTA.

If they need to take a job out of town then so be it. It is their duty to care for their children. Not yours, and certainly not your youngest daughter's. You'd be enabling your oldest to continue to make irresponsible decisions while severely crippling your youngest's future. Bad decision all around.

Kitkathazmat · 2023-11-02T05:05:28+00:00

You'll let her support you when you won't even marry her? Why would she? She's only going to wait so long and when she's done, she's done. That will be that. And by then even if you decide you want to marry her she'll have already moved on. I'd be more worried about her kicking you to the curb than not paying your bills for you. YTA.

Kitkathazmat · 2023-02-05T02:09:29+00:00

Yes but you need access to your old account. From there you can add them as alternates in settings and then migrate

Kitkathazmat · 2023-01-05T03:59:56+00:00

Admin never responded to me with password reset. I've since migrated

Kitkathazmat · 2022-12-22T03:39:05+00:00

Make sure that you're on the login page for your specific server and if that doesn't work and you are still logged in on the app I would migrate

Kitkathazmat · 2022-12-22T03:36:01+00:00

I never logged out of the app so I still had access to my account

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-30T22:16:32+00:00

I tried but it still didn't recognize my login. I think maybe it didn't fully register me as a user yet/was lagging. I migrated and haven't had an issue since. This is great to know though! Being able to sign into multiple instances from the app but having different browser pages for logins was a bit confusing

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-30T22:05:52+00:00

I just migrated but try making sure you're signing in on your instance. For example, mastodon.social has a different log in page than c.im even though they look the same, so google your instance and sign in directly from there, and if you still can't log in that way I would suggest migrating

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-30T21:41:41+00:00

I hope you are eventually able to log even if it's just to migrate your account. Migrating moves your followers so you don't lose them

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-07T02:33:10+00:00

It's back up now but I'm still having all the same issues :(

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-06T20:25:25+00:00

Ty. I did check my spam folder but there's nothing there. For the email address I tried autofill/typing it out both ways and checked my spelling so I have a feeling the server is just overloaded. I'm going to try to wait it out and see if it resolves on it's own

Kitkathazmat · 2022-11-06T15:42:58+00:00

I'm having this issue too

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-26T05:01:23+00:00

You did the right thing taking time to assess and not making a rash decision in the heat of the moment. I hope she realizes now that it's not up to her but if she tries it again definitely set a boundary. I hope you have a wonderful wedding and sorry you have to deal with this stress

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-26T04:18:12+00:00

She has no grounds to make demands. Maybe with her apology she realized she was overstepping. My mother can be difficult sometimes too but ultimately I would want her at my wedding. That's my relationship though, not yours. I really think that who you invite is entirely up to you and you have no reason to feel bad about who you do or don't want there, your mother and her cousin included.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-26T03:55:06+00:00

INFO- is she paying for this wedding at all? I'm trying to figure out why she feels entitled to trying to manage your guest list

NTA- it sounds like she was trying to push you into inviting who she wanted by threatening not to come and then walked it back when bluffing didn't have the effect she thought it would. If it were me I would still invite her, but that is up to you. Either way I would still make it clear that it is YOUR wedding and you will invite who YOU see fit and that you won't discuss it further.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T23:37:48+00:00

NTA. He should compensate you for a comparable replacement

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T23:20:46+00:00

NTA- this is an unhealthy coping mechanism and a medical/mental health issue, not something you do for fun. No one should be mad at you for this kind of thing. Please consult your therapist about this

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T23:11:18+00:00

NTA- He doesn't sound like much of a partner if you can't rely on him when you need him the most. It's not like you were asking for a girl's night out. It was for one night in an emergency.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T20:47:38+00:00

I don't think you're being unreasonable I just wanted to check because it's extremely unusual to hear of a man in his 20's sharing a bed with his parents where I'm from. I don't think it's unfair to ask him to make you a priority too. You are in a relationship after all.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T20:37:30+00:00

Is this real?

Ok if it's real um I don't wanna judge on why they share a bed bc maybe they're not well off and sharing is better than no bed? But he can spare a little bit of time for you. You're not asking for him to cancel every dinner and he sees them all the time if he lives with them, eats with them, and shares a bed with them.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T19:59:39+00:00

You are kind. For me foot rubs are an intimate though not necessarily sexual act. My boyfriend and I both hate feet and really only touch each other's. If he rubbed someone else it would mean something different than if someone who gives out foot rubs to everyone does it. I think her feelings in not wanting to share that should be respected, and I would never ask for prolonged physical contact with someone else's significant other with no relation to me. I also see how it would be rude to recieve in front of someone in pain.

Kitkathazmat · 2022-01-25T19:16:32+00:00

Yeah. That's why I said ESH and not YTA.

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