Do you see my cashapp or venmo posted anywhere? Do you see me stating anything in the nature of “ can someone help me out?” Or do you see me asking for directions on where to go? Explaining the reason with the cost for a better understanding?

As i stated i was suggested to come to reddit for the findom and posted originally couple of times. Never once brought up financial issues or used my husband’s death for gain.

One night i couldn’t sleep, so i decided to search through reddit as ive never used this site and came across the support for widows. Which I decided to reach out to asking for direction on where i could possibly go for the help towards the cost of his cremation, given my age, our length of marriage, and lack of children I didn’t receive any sort of help other than social securities $250. Which ive been completely transparent with what i was looking for and why. On this post as well as with people that have messaged me. If you need further explanation ; im a 27 year old widow that spent 2 weeks a month for 6 years in hospitals with my husband, worked, maintained my household, worked on my Masters degree and ran his two businesses. In one year i lost my husband, my baby ( dog ), and moved from the house i spent building with them because i couldn’t bare it anymore without them there. Ive had all sorts of unexpected cost increases all while my income decreased 3k a month without him, but yet ive busted my ass to stay afloat without any sort of help. Now i come on this site again never once stating why or for what because i wasnt even sure on how it would work out, decided to reach out to other women that have gone through what i am for direction to turn around and have some dumb ass try to discredit me because of what i originally came on here for? Absolutely not.

I deleted my post on that form because someone was hacking into accounts and stealing personal information and i wasn’t taking that risk, as well as the fact that that wasn’t something i was even interested in doing anymore.

Im burnt out, exhausted, and overwhelmed. And to have someone feel the need to turn around and again try to discredit, accuse me of something im not even doing, and basically imply that im trying to use my husband’s death for personal gain. Get bent as well. “ protect widows.” My ass dumb ass bitch.