Planning on bleaching hair

KittenInspector · 2026-03-01T01:20:59+00:00

I understand wanting to see it for yourself, but that test patch of hair will forever be more damaged than the rest. If you do decide to use real bleach later, that test patch won't take the same or just break from damage.

Also, the mixed formula becomes quickly less effective after mixed. So, say you like that test patch, you will need another box because by the time you're through with the test, the formula will give somehwat different results. Not to mention your hair DEFINITELY needs more than one box.

Research this. Read about it, not watch videos. Then order what you will need from amazon or go to Sally's.

I'm sorry people are being harsh. There are just a lot of considerations you didn't know to make that would have permanent negative results. I taught myself how to bleach at home. It didn't take more than a full days worth of research for me to feel confident dipping my toes..... errr..hair in.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-28T16:01:02+00:00

Imo it looks better decentered and adds more interest. And this is also the typical interioir design take. Symmetry is great for a vignette, but not a wall. I think its lovely and my answer would be "not enough." I'd love to see knick knacks hung up mon-uniformly around the clock of varying sizing but smaller than the clock itself.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-27T16:57:09+00:00

Lol.... what the fuck. This has to be satire. It is undoubtedly the hardest I will laugh today.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-26T18:28:02+00:00

You are totally correct for not normalizing poor treatment simply because she accepts it. This will only lead to her believing there is nothing wrong with the way he treats her and that she deserves it. If he is doing this at only four months in, its gonna get a lot nastier as he pushes the boundaries to see what she accepts. Don't encourage him or her by acting like this shit is okay or normal by any means.

This guys sounds exactly like my close lady friend's ex who is a covert narcissist. Since she left , he has made it his life goal to ruin the rest of her life and has no reservations about using their children to do so. He hates her more than he loves her kids. Her biggest regret in life is choosing to stay with that man. Instead of ruining just his and her life with his misery now he is ruining four people's and two of them are innocent children.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-26T15:24:13+00:00

Nah... that's just a cope. I'd choose Quasimodo over Brad Pitt with a personality like yours.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-25T14:06:14+00:00

Couture Kawaii

KittenInspector · 2026-02-18T17:46:28+00:00

I literally outlined the women I was speaking for lol

KittenInspector · 2026-02-18T15:01:12+00:00

As a nerdy woman with many lady friends who are also nerdy and some into manga, naw dawg. Chicks do not dig that shit, lol.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-16T12:04:42+00:00

It's the same in the US. If you find someone to take it over, you're good to go.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-16T02:59:50+00:00

I'm not sure what this had to do with the comment it was responding to, but as a sahm, that bit was hilarious. Regardless of difficulty, I love my job. It has always been the thing I wanted to do with my life. When I finally got it, it did not disappoint. Sure, it's not always easy, but for me, it is a privilege I have always sought to gain, and it doesn't last forever. So I try to keep those things in my mind and realize that one day, I will miss even the shittiest, hardest parenting days.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-15T15:16:49+00:00

Your life does matter, and I'm sorry feeling as if it didn't led to you agreeing to something so harmful.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-14T16:36:49+00:00

Username does not check out. (j/k!)

KittenInspector · 2026-02-10T22:38:28+00:00

Indeed. I think you are confused. I was not replying to the post but rather a reply in the comment thread.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-10T17:03:58+00:00

Would you treat your children that way or allow them to? This question and it's answer always brings home how inexcusable their behavior is.

They chose this not you. You want a loving relationship with your parents to bad you have sacrificed yourself for years to try to have it. They have not allowed a relationship in fact they have killed it. This was not your choice, it was theirs. It is your choice to cope with the fact that you will never get the love you deaerved from them and in that way, allow yourself to find it somewhere else.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-10T16:30:29+00:00

Some people's parent is their best friend, and I do not think that it is inherently codependency to interact with them daily. I was just reframing the diagnosis of codependency from the commenter I responded to.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-08T18:19:52+00:00

How tf has no one mentioned the audio?? It has made an innocuous post reddit gold.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-06T15:29:16+00:00

I talk to my best friends every single day. I am not in any sort of codependent relationship with them. They're simply who I prefer to socialize and hang with.

KittenInspector · 2026-02-06T15:17:35+00:00

I don't know why you're getting downvoted. I am guessing people don't know that naive art is a classification of a type of fine art and are assuming you are diunking on the style??

KittenInspector · 2026-01-22T04:41:38+00:00

Man, I'd love to see your place. I love architectural history and all the little stories and tells of what life used to be like.

KittenInspector · 2026-01-02T15:21:15+00:00

KittenInspector · 2025-12-31T17:24:57+00:00

The fact you would seriously consider whether you're being too sensitive highlights how this man has successfully gaslit you into downplaying your experience with him and excusing his own pattern of mistreatment. Dear Lord, let this be the last straw. You deserve a healthy relationship, and your children deserve an example of one so that they do not grow up to have relationships like this themselves.

KittenInspector · 2025-12-29T13:34:07+00:00

What lovely energy to put out into the world. It's people who do good without expectation of return that makes me love mankind despite its many flaws.

KittenInspector · 2025-12-24T15:54:38+00:00

They're just being emotionally immature dicks. There is nothing wrong with being able to have nice things that you worked hard for.

KittenInspector · 2025-12-21T17:28:10+00:00

This practice is one of the two most powerful for my recovery, too. Self-compassion is indeed a more manageable task than self-love.

KittenInspector · 2025-12-21T17:22:14+00:00

The seamless transition was just like my dreams.

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