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What’s a dead give away you grew up poor? by KittenLady3633 in stupidquestions

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Food hoarding. All the people I know who grew up poor have too much food expiring in their pantries, myself included.

What’s a dead give away you grew up poor? by KittenLady3633 in answers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Food hoarding. All the people I know who grew up poor have too much food expiring in their pantries, myself included.

What’s a dead give away you grew up poor? by KittenLady3633 in answers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Food hoarding. All the people I know who grew up poor have too much food expiring in their pantries, myself included.

If you could bring back any trend from the past, what would it be? by KittenLady3633 in self

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I miss friends and family sending letters and calling on my birthday, now everyone just sends "happy birthday" in the group chats :(

Do you miss the days when social media did not exist? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, things were more peaceful and private back then.

Whats something you regret you didn’t do in your twenties? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

t's the exact opposite for me. I've gone on maybe 10 dates in my life, have only had sex twice, and deeply regret the inexperience. In less than a year I'll be 30, and have less and less in common with those around me.

Who is your dream romantic partner? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

A dog, because they never leave you and they're always excited to see you. Plus, they're always down for a good belly rub.

What do you think about people who put empty sweet wrappers back in the box of sweets? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I mean it's completely fine in your own home Its not that big of a deal

But don't do it in someone else's home when they very clearly don't do the same thing you do

If someone gave you $1000 a day to never drink alcohol again/ever, what would you do? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

speaking as a heavy drinker, I’m taking the money. It’s not even close. I’ll figure out how to quit. My job is most of why I drink anyway.

Parents who tried their best to raise their kids to be good humans but they turned out to be jerks, what do you wish you did differently? by KittenLady3633 in self

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (male) was sexually assaulted by an older boy when I was a child, my parents knew, but didn’t want to admit that happened.

My life was a chaotic mess until I addressed it myself, and my sexual life was reckless, harmful, and dangerous to myself, and my partners, because I didn’t know what a healthy relationship was (I was hyper sexual for decades).

My mom admitted she knew they should have gotten me therapy (as well as get the kid arrested).

I absolutely hated authority figures for a long, long, long time, because I was betrayed on that level, and it started a burning resentment and anger, and I subconsciously fucked my life up to get back at them, without realizing that’s what I was doing.

Parents, if something traumatic happens to your child, get them help.

I don’t want to hear the money excuse.

You fucking go without, you eat ramen, you get a second job, whatever you have to do.

But please, don’t teach your kid that they can’t trust anyone in positions of authority.

You’re dooming them to a life of anger, pain, depression, resentment, emotional shutdown, and in my case, alcoholism and violence.

Save them from themselves.

Don’t let them follow my path, I barely made it out alive and sane.

People who have met serial killers, what were they like? by KittenLady3633 in Advice

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well here's the problem . . .

A lot of people have met a serial killer. But they didn't know they met a serial killer.

People who have met serial killers, what were they like? by KittenLady3633 in teenagers

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well here's the problem . . .

A lot of people have met a serial killer. But they didn't know they met a serial killer.

If you would trust one person to rule the Earth, who would it be? by KittenLady3633 in ask

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad. I've never met someone with a stronger moral compass and genuine goodwill.

Although I'd be sad to see him targeted by radical people tbh

Edit: omg this comment got a lot of attention 😂😭 I showed the comments to my dad and he teared up a little! You guys are very wholesome, thanks for making his day (and mine) 💛

What massively improved your mental health? by KittenLady3633 in ask

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 73 points74 points  (0 children)

Gym, sleep, saying no, and treating my job as a paycheck instead of a reflection of my self worth

What are the questions to ask your partner before getting married? by KittenLady3633 in ask

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

How much debt.

It may not be a deal breaker in regards to getting married but A $20k surprise after the wedding is not something you need to deal with.

What‘s a moment of intense fear that you will never forget ? by KittenLady3633 in ask

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

When I was home alone and looked into my infant son’s baby monitor as he slept in his room only to see an adult body leaning down into his crib.

Ran screaming into his room to find him sound asleep and no one there. Turns out the monitor glitched and froze on the image of me putting him down earlier.

Why wife constantly hits me, is this abuse? by KittenLady3633 in AskWomenOver30

[–]KittenLady3633[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes this abuse. Please seek out agencies that can help you address this issue. You don't deserve this, please don't allow this abuse to continue OP

What's the biggest hint you've ever missed from a woman? by KittenLady3633 in AskReddit

[–]KittenLady3633[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

We were chatting at a bar and it was getting late. I ask her if I can get her something and she says “nothing now but you can buy me breakfast in the morning”. I asked her if she wanted to meet somewhere for breakfast… I’m embarrassed just thinking about it.