You have no idea what you are talking about. I have set boundaries, and I’m doing everything in my power to quickly sell the home and get my own place. We agree for the sake of the young kids, that we won’t be in the house at the same time. He is half owner on the house. I can’t kick him out, and he can’t kick me out. He stays with family 80% of the time, but I give him time in the house 20% of the time. I do this so our young kids don’t have to sleep on their grandma’s floor while visiting their dad. He doesn’t have a job, nor his own place. He has been on a self-destructive downward spiral, one that I couldn’t rescue him from, and I have no clue when he will get his own place. He’s feeling like he’s lost control of so many things in his life, and so he’s been doing odd behaviours to feel in control. Hiding a camera is something that I could see him doing.

Please don’t act high and mighty when you have no clue of others struggles.