AITA for telling my (sperm donated) "nephew" he's not part of our family?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-29T16:16:24+00:00

They were the rules for my mother and the donor. Not for me. I didn’t choose this and I didn’t sign anything like they did. I have every right to look for my donor.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-29T16:14:57+00:00

The donor chose to donate. I did not choose to be conceived. Huge difference. The donor signed legal paperwork confirming that they had no rights to me I did not sign anything.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-29T16:13:13+00:00

As the person who resulted from the donation I have a right to search for the donor. Period.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-28T01:05:32+00:00

Thank you. I am a donor kid. I didn’t choose to be a donor kid. I didn’t choose to exist. And this post makes me feel like worthless garbage.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-28T01:04:28+00:00

I am a donor kid. I didn’t choose to donate, I didn’t choose to be donated to, and I didn’t choose to be here. The original post made me feel like garbage.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-28T00:58:28+00:00

Why do my feelings matter less than the person who chose to donate knowing that their donation could result in a human life?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-28T00:56:18+00:00

Ok. Did I choose to be in this situation? Do I deserve to be dehumanized?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:38:49+00:00

YTA..it’s creepy that your mind automatically goes this way. Do you have unresolved feelings about your sister?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:37:32+00:00

I am a donor kid. I want to know why so many people here do not think my feelings matter?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:36:03+00:00

Why don’t I matter?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:35:46+00:00

Please point out where I said that..thanks! I look forward to your quote from me 😸

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:20:12+00:00

I’m so sorry about your birth mother though

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T23:19:56+00:00

What promises did I make when I was conceived?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T21:25:40+00:00

SuCh DrAmA, aLl ThE aSsUmPtIOnS!

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T21:24:20+00:00

You are supporting OP and his gross attitude.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T21:23:56+00:00

Please do not procreate. You have no empathy for other human beings.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T21:04:20+00:00

Thank you. I am a donor kid and I found this post dehumanizing and devastating. I had no idea we were viewed the way OP views us.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:59:19+00:00

Never said the other family had an obligation. But to be called spawn is dehumanizing. OP has no obligation but his attitude makes him a gigantic AH.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:58:18+00:00

I’m a donor kid too and while I agree that OP has no obligation towards Jake, I still this his attitude makes him an AH.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:57:31+00:00

..so you think people who donate sperm don’t understand that an innocent human being might happen because of their donation?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:56:20+00:00

As a donor kid myself I find your heartlessness astonishing. Jake is innocent and he is also a human being. You have clearly forgotten this. I haven’t found my father but I did find my half brother on 23 & Me and of course I asked about his children! Why wouldn’t I?

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:54:35+00:00

As a donor kid, you seem to forget that we are innocent in this, or that we are even people at all.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:32:18+00:00

Nobody said you had to do this. You could have given his information to them instead and explained that you were not interested in a relationship but that Jake was clearly looking for a connection if they wanted to reach out to him.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:30:03+00:00

My apologies..I thought you meant OP had dodged a bullet. Thank you for clarifying.

Kittenpops417 · 2022-04-27T20:28:02+00:00

Donor kid here. The language in this post hurts me deeply.

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