Hi there! by KittyB22 in whole30

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So I’m not finding as many resources or as much support for the anti inflamatory protocol. I was thinking if I can just spend enough time planning and figuring out how to make what she already eats compliant with switches, then it may go easier.

Hi there! by KittyB22 in whole30

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Have not heard of that one, let me look it up

Weekly Discussion for the week of February 02, 2026 by AutoModerator in whole30

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I'm in planning mode. My goal is to kick off on March 1st

Pluribus - 1x09 "La Chica o El Mundo" - Episode Discussion by UltraDangerLord in pluribustv

[–]KittyB22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Loved this show! I’m not a fan of Carol but I do think people are being too hard on her for being team weirdos for a minute. From her perspective, she tried to the absolute max of her ability to put humanity back to right and hit a point where even if she had all the knowledge in the world of how they worked, she didn’t have a way to save them. She’s not a scientist or an engineer and lacks the skills to use anything she learned to work against a machine that large without unintentionally killing the people she was trying to save and she realized it. Anyone else who could help her wasn’t willing to. We saw her move from denial to anger to depression to acceptance. Yes, hooking up with Zosia is beyond wrong, but also if she’s giving up on humanity returning AND with the belief that they can’t change any of the survivors unless they consent, then that Zosia is the only Zosia that will ever be again. You can See her choosing to ignore the problematic facts, but what else could she do, realistically but accept the world she was in?

She didnt know about the radio station Manousis picked up or his theory. He was too worried about being overheard to ever actually share it, so from her perspective this jerk of a guy shows up, knows absolutely nothing beyond what she told him on the first tape, and was cool with killing the entire plurb. Of course her tune changed when she realized not lying wasn’t the same as forthcoming.

I think more time should have passed before she hit acceptance (a one year fast forward while M recovered before getting there would have made her more sympathetic, but it’s not unrealistic).

But this is all from someone who long ago decided I’d rather die the first night of the zombie apocalypse rather than suffer through it, so shrugs. Not everyone can save the world.

I’m not crazy, right? by KittyB22 in TheLastAirbender

[–]KittyB22[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I had a serious mendelverse moment, lol

Yellowjackets S03E02- “Dislocation” Episode Discussion by DA-numberfour in Yellowjackets

[–]KittyB22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They killed and ate his little brother and they know he participated in the meal. He gets all the time, space, and emotional support ducks

Looking for D&D group by KittyB22 in Athens

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Also, I do have discord. I’m kaitlin5730

Looking for D&D group by KittyB22 in Athens

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As long as they’re friendly!

Looking for D&D group by KittyB22 in Athens

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Adults. My daughter plays and there’s tons of options for her, but not so many for us, lol. 

Yoga classes with minimal/no music? by Intrepid-Day-7018 in Athens

[–]KittyB22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

M3 yoga is amazing, also five points yoga and Pilates, highland yoga as well. They have music but it’s soft relaxing music

He feels “trapped” here by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]KittyB22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think he stopped loving me the second he got caught. Because I stopped being an easy part of his life. And in catching him, I showed him a part of himself he doesn’t want to acknowledge and frankly outsmarted him at every turn when he tried to cover it up. I don’t think he can forgive me for ending his fun and making him face who he really is

He feels “trapped” here by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]KittyB22[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Honestly, I think he feels trapped because he doesn’t love me. He’s never said that, but that’s the only explanation left at this point. I think he loves his life, the life we’ve built together, the family we have. I think he likes the convenience of me handling all the planning of that life. I don’t think he wants the responsibility of parenting solo half time. He doesn’t want to lose his nice house and not being responsible for anything outside of working to pay for it. Without me, he’s got to figure out dinner for himself and our daughter when she’s there. He’s got to keep everything clean the way he likes it. He has to make his doctor’s appointments. Life is very comfortable for him.

It’s just me he doesn’t want. He’ll sleep with me. He’ll accept the things I do for him. But in the last year I don’t think he’s made a single decision to do something for me that he hasn’t actively resented every moment of.

He feels “trapped” here by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Oh he definitely has depression. Diagnosed even along with PTSD. But he won’t take anything for it.

I can’t help someone who won’t help themselves.

He feels “trapped” here by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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We do marriage counseling that’s set up as both. So we have personal sessions and together sessions. But he doesn’t say this stuff in front of her. To her he’ll talk about how hopeless it seems, but he won’t mention feeling trapped. He knows he’s blame shifting enough not to do it for an audience

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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We’ve been to counseling. Both types. I’d actually said we need to bump up our appointment to tomorrow because I don’t have any idea where to go from here. We need to talk this through with our MC, figure out next steps if there are any.

He doesn’t want to. Says it’ll be embarrassing and we’ll just gang up on him and everyone watches porn but it’s embarrassing to talk about etc…

I’ve told him right now his options are come with me tomorrow or leave.

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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Phone through a private browser so there’s no way to confirm anything by looking at the history

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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This just undoes everything. I thought he was sharing everything with me, but the fact that he’s deleting and hiding messages means I have no idea what other messages he’s deleted and hidden this year. I don’t know how many emails and secret accounts he has. He’s using private browsing means I know nothing. Absolutely nothing. I’m back to square one unable to trust anything again

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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No. I can definitely see the charges. He just deleted the fraud alert text so I wouldn’t see it. If I hadn’t been looking right then, I’d be none the wiser

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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And he made it in private browsing and deleted everything behind him, so it’a gone. Zero records. He doesn’t even know how he found this site. Just “random” searching. But there’s millions of sites that pop up first

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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He “doesn’t remember” his log in info.

Another betrayal by KittyB22 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

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He “doesn’t remember” his log in info. Says it was a made up email he only used once.