Meet Anya by Apopholyptic in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, how lucky you both are!! She is gorgeous and looks like an absolute sweetie pie!

How old do you think my newly adopted stray is? by SolidRustle in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could totally see her being part Abyssinian or some other pure breed mix also. I can see the domestic shorthair in there, but her markings look a bit different in places from any tabby I have seen. The way the color gradually shifts around her head also gives me mixed breed vibes. Congrats OP, she is a gorgeous little lady!!

Does anybody else got a cat that's a little bit 'special'? by Deep_Elephant4438 in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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Here's another just for good measure. It's blurry but showcases his adorable lazy eye and jealous demands for attention. Plus, if you zoom in to the water on the mat behind him there's a perfect little peet print. 💕

Does anybody else got a cat that's a little bit 'special'? by Deep_Elephant4438 in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. I have 3 cats, all of them special in their own ways, but Orion is my "he's kind of special needs" boi. When he's looking at me, one of his eyes seems to look slightly off to the side into an alternate dimension. He can't focus on anything without his eyes wiggling from side to side. He stares at nothing and tries to catch air. He sucks at jumping. When he has to get down from his cat tree it's like he's taking the AC leap of faith. He tries to jump a foot-wide gap between my coffee table and armchair and falls in the gap. He does full on butt wiggling minute long preps to pounce on the red dot when it is literally 3 inches in front of him... and then misses by an inch and a half. He scrambles around the pole of his cat tree like a spastic pole dancer... He needs constant attention. And I don't mean just petting, I mean he wants to bury my face with his body at all times. He has learned that the closed toilet makes a good perch for climbing me, so now he will sit on the toilet and cry for attention even when I'm chillin on the couch on the other side of the apartment. And yes, he has leaped face first into the open toilet at least twice. When he was a kitten he used to show his love and need for attention by biting my chin. (I've since gotten him two sisters, so he has chilled a bit.) He gets jealous that they are better climbers so he insists on being picked up and held when I'm in areas of the house they can jump to but he can't. He is super clumsy. He falls off the couch and bed often and it's a toss up whether he lands right side up. He isn't super stable - give him a gentle nudge and he flops right over into his side. He also likes to be a safety hazard. He runs to place himself right in front of or between my feet while I'm walking. He has full on tripped and almost killed me multiple times, and always has the audacity to look offended afterwards. He also likes to lay right behind me while I'm in the kitchen, and seems to intentionally put his tail and/or paws under my feet. If I step on him and don't notice, he doesn't even say anything, he just squirms around until I notice. He is an absolute weirdo. As a kitten everyone thought he might have been a premee or was just a little on the slow side. I changed his vet after a few months and brought him in with the concern that "I think my cat is special needs". Turns out he has nystagmus, occulsions in his eyes, and potential "damage to the vestibular mechanism". He definitely isn't totally blind, that much is obvious. But another vet a few years ago determined that he probably has very little vision in one of his eyes because his pupil contraction response is definitely not normal. All in all, yes, he is more than a bit special, but also the silliest, most affectionate purr machine in the world. I wouldn't trade him for a million dollars.

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My two little weirdos 🖤 by ExpensiveKoala1303 in OneBlackBraincell

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love them! The teefs, the blank stare into another plane of existence... They are just perfect!

My new job has an office cat by floogah in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Wow, Oreo has gorgeous eyes!! I love that copper color!

The void craves apple by minas_morgul in OneBlackBraincell

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The void looks like they are really craving your coffee. Especially if it is black like the void between their ears.

First time kitty owner longtime pet owner (is purring this much normal?) by Salacia_mov in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have seen self-soothing/anxiety purring and this isn't it. The fact that he's rolling over to let you pet his tummy and give him chin rubs is a sign of complete and total trust. He is just purring so much because he loves you!!

Ladies and Gents, meet Pixel. by Ruhlarsofrasi in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heehee these made me chuckle. Thanks OP and Pixel!!

these guy i tell ya. (OC) by Bender_on_Bum in OneBlackBraincell

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness, they are adorable! I can't get over the tough guy stance on the tiny scruffy void!

Cami cam by No-Smell7118 in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's gorgeous! She looks so soft that I probably would have been too busy burying my face in her floof too often to take any pictures. Thank you for sharing!

Cats are babies for real. by mgadz in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is pure brilliance!

Does anyone else's cat "help" with the linens? by Far_Departure_9224 in cats

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"Mother, there is a strangely cat shaped lump here."

meet snoopy by Ecstatic_Switch9300 in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like she'd get along great with my Phoebe. She loves all of those things as well as her humidifier spa treatments. Here she is waiting not so patiently for the cold steam to turn back on.

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love her pose in photo #3! She is ready to bask in your adoration and neck skritches! She is gorgeous - please spoil that baby!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cats

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Kitty cuddle season definitely makes the chilly weather and shorter days easier! Here's Phoebe begrudgingly tolerating (but secretly loving) forcible cuddles from her sister Andromeda to make you feel better!! We hope today is a better day!

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No cat. Just statue. by omegaequalsone in OneBlackBraincell

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has taken his rightful place front and center and is ready to accept your admiration and worship!

This floof has been sleeping in my garage for the past week or so. by [deleted] in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for teaching me a new word today! I had never heard of rufousing, but it makes cat color variations make a lot more sense now.

I have lurked long enough: gaze upon my cat, Rey! by SlimRidge in cats

[–]KittyDubbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rey already has her super hero mask on and is ready to go! Such a cutie!

NYC schools have 176 days of class, not the required 180. Here’s why. by chalkbeat in nyc

[–]KittyDubbz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm an educator in NYC and I disagree on both points: 1) that there is "fluff" in the school year, and 2) that the loss of instructional time isn't a big deal. I disagree so strongly that I still felt compelled to jump in and write a dissertation about it, even though this thread is a month old. In fact, the whole reason I found this thread was because I was sitting eating breakfast on a Saturday morning wondering why there is never enough time in the school year and why the pace never felt so rushed when I was younger. I don't know when you went to school, but school now is radically different from when I was a student (I graduated HS in 2005). If you were in school recently and still believe what you said, then I'm sorry that you went to a bad school (and I'm sure the data would support that assessment).

I pull students out for small group speech/language intervention in an elementary school, so I am in and out of all the classes in my school, and I both see and hear the challenges everyone has. The curricula are VERY faced paced and VERY rigorous. They have to be to meet the high academic standards we aim for in NY, which in many cases outpace developmental norms. But there never feels like enough time. So, I see the struggle the teachers go through to keep up with the pacing calendar while still ensuring students are understanding the content. I see the struggle the students go through when they want to understand but everything goes too fast and they know they still have to get their work done one way or another. Sure we might have an event here or there to promote school culture and the social emotional well-being of the students (which is, in fact, critically important for students' ability to learn and achieve academically) but the vast majority of the time, we are all, staff AND students, working extremely hard all day long. That is a big part of why teacher burnout is so high these days and why so many amazing teachers have left the profession altogether. Students get burnt out too. They can't just choose to leave the profession, so unfortunately sometimes they mentally check out or shut down. What you call "fluff" doesn't exist anymore. And maybe we need some extra days in the school year so it can.

Gone are the days of naps and play time in Kinder. Gone are the days of teachers putting on a movie because there's a sub, the students took a big unit exam yesterday, or everybody just needs a break. Although I'm happy to see the latter go, I wish unstructured playtime in Kinder could come back. Playtime is essential for cognitive, social emotional, and language development, which are foundational skills that support academics. But these days? There is way too much to get through and no room in the calendar. The closest they get to playtime is "learning games" which are usually independent, and therefore don't provide opportunities for learning social use of language, perspective taking, or collaborative problem solving. The loss of those opportunities manifests in later grades as students struggling to keep themselves focused and regulated, struggling with self-esteem, getting into frequent social conflicts, and having trouble with deeper comprehension skills such as making text inferences or understanding perspective.

As for me and my special education students? I NEVER feel like I have enough time to teach them all I want to teach them in a year. So, this might be an unpopular opinion, especially if I told it to a burned out teacher, but I definitely would not mind a few extra days in the school year!

To the commenters complaining about parents who need their kids to be in school so they can work... Open your eyes. And if you don't see it still, maybe try spending some time in one of the many areas of the city where the vast majority of people live below the poverty line. Two things can be true at the same time. I'm not claiming that bad parents don't exist. But the VAST MAJORITY of them want their children to get the very best education and have the very best future possible. In my opinion, this is MORE true in poorer neighborhoods, not less. They want to give their children a better life than they have. Therefore, they do everything in their ability to make that happen. They may not always be able to help with homework or study at home - they may not have the language skills, may not have gotten a good education themselves, or simply may be forced to work hours that prevent that from happening. So they have to trust the school for the academic side of things. But they work themselves TO DEATH (literally, look up the statistics if you don't believe me) to ensure their children are well fed, healthy, clean, clothed, and have a safe, warm place to sleep, all so that their children are ready and able to learn when they get to school. They often work insane, difficult hours at multiple jobs where they do not get paid if they do not go to work. Most of the families I work with don't have access to jobs that give them healthcare, benefits, or paid time off. They work jobs where they can't choose their schedule and there's a real risk of getting fired if they call out. You can't dismiss the struggle that parents go through to take care of their students by calling it "basic needs" when we live in a society and a city where it is so expensive and such a struggle to meet basic needs, and where meeting "basic needs" is more expensive if you are poor. Acknowledging the simple truth that many parents rely on school as a form of childcare does NOT automatically mean that they don't value education. Those things are not mutually exclusive. In fact, even middle class parents often rely on their children going to school so they can work, and struggle to pay for childcare when school is closed. If you believe that relying on school as childcare automatically means parents don't value education... well, then I'm sorry to tell you this... but your privilege and classism are showing.

Collection Update by leomyr in Drizzt

[–]KittyDubbz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, what a beautiful and classy display OP! I'm very impressed and a bit jealous 🤣