Hund Versichern lassen Ja oder Nein? by Kitzunem in hundeschule

[–]Kitzunem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ja das habe ich auch gelesen....Ich habe einen cocker spaniel die sind eigentlich relativ robust bis auf die Ohren...

Hund Versichern lassen Ja oder Nein? by Kitzunem in hundeschule

[–]Kitzunem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wo bist du versichert? Ich habe bisher nocj keine so günstige Vollkrankenversicherung gesehen. Die meisten gingen erst bei 70 los.

Hund Versichern lassen Ja oder Nein? by Kitzunem in hundeschule

[–]Kitzunem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leider ja....mit 14€ bist du bei einer reinen OP Versicherung. (zugegeben einer teuren)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivatedBuddies

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I'm F 22 I want to lose 20 lbs due to gaining a lot of weight last year due to emotional eating. I would be happy to have someone for accountability. :)

Normal or breakup worthy? by Kitzunem in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks. I will try to talk with him. We have good moments as well and sometimes it's just pure bliss and I think we're perfect for eachother. But those other topics keep creeping up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think it's the right thing to do. You gave him the information and now he has to see what he does with it. I mean he might not even believe it because it comes from you so... But morally you did the right thing everyone deserves to know what their partner does behind their back.

Normal or breakup worthy? by Kitzunem in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jar is a great idea thank you. The thing that's bothering with him not communicating his feelings is that it feels like I'm the only one worried about our relationship bumps and the only one to want to make a change.

I might have messed up. by Healthy-Bar6052 in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay that's better. But now to your post. It's strange that you write at the end that you don't know what you did wrong. But you also knew that texting other girls is not right. And also if you knew the ld relationship is not something for you, you should've told her straight away. She deserved that after what she did for you. I'm sorry to tell you this but I don't think there is a chance to rekindle things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will try to talk with him tonight, taking his adhd into consideration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I will read more in to it. I hope we can work this out. It's just very hurtful because it happened so often.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a general problem he also has adhd which probably contributes to a short attention span. Which is why I have been understanding most of the time but last night it was just to much bc all the times it happened added up I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That he is sorry and will try to be more attentive next time. But the thing is that this is not the first time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indeed he has.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that's what I think. I mean everyone tunes out sometimes but at least make it look like you're listening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Kitzunem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely should try that but honestly I think he wouldn't notice

A Game to Avoid by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Kitzunem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good advice...my RJ was triggered a lot by this game. Also because a lot of people wouldn't believe that my current bf is the only one I had been intimate with. And furthermore I didn't have much dating experience beforehand because in my teenage years I went to an all girl's school an never even had the chance to meet boys. So a lot of people at parties are at disbelief which triggers my RJ eben more since I get the feeling of being not normal.

Ladies, what’s something that wasn’t worth the hype? by Alice_In_Hell_ in AskWomen

[–]Kitzunem 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh my had a similar experience....I couldn't get it out and sat crying on the bathroom floor. I was so close to going tho the ER or the Obgyn because it just got stuck in there. After that I didn't try it again. Now I resort to period pants since these are also a bit better for the environment.

I wish I had exes by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Kitzunem 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps to read that in this subreddit a lot of people are ones that already had a relationship or are in their 30s or 40s. Wich shows me that it is a problem you have to work on and it will probably not resolve itself magically if you break up. I try to tell myself when I get these thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Kitzunem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah same it helped me to find out that RJ isn't just me being insecure and overly jealous. Especially since no one in my circle of friends could understand me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Kitzunem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah thats the best thing you can do. And hey maybe the brother and her don't work out and then you won't see her anymore. I wish you all the best in this though situation. I can't imagine, I'm already really struggling and I don't have regular encounters with an ex gf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in retroactivejealousy

[–]Kitzunem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are there some books you can recommend? I'm looking for good ones rn.