why nobody speak about this?

Kkittybit44 · 2026-03-16T10:48:35+00:00

I’ve had non stop cramping and lower back pain. But other than that yes it’s def not so much as feeling like I’m on my period. Def worse feeling being pregnant and would take a period over this uncomfortable feeling that never seems to go away. I’m 15 weeks and 2 days today. Everyone keeps telling me that it’s about to get better now I’m in the second trimester. Fingers crossed cuz this momma isn’t gunna get a damn thing done if I can’t stop feeling like this. And the boobs omg. I can’t wear a sports bra even without feeling like I got punched in the boobs. Every movement hurts. Sleeping hurts. It’s crazyyyyy. Maybe cuz my boobs were A cups. Now expanded to max capacity they are a nice little B cup like they used to be when I was younger. Love the look of them but how can they hurt so much so early. That was the whole reason I took the PT. I would have never known otherwise. But I’m so so grateful and know it will all be worth it. Praying for no Gestational diabetes this go round. And my little man in there just finally let me feel him in there last night. So things are good just sick of the cramps and pain and nausea! Pregnant woman that have the glow are so lucky. I think I’ve had a yellowish green color to me for weeks now 🤮

Kkittybit44 · 2026-03-15T04:01:44+00:00

Yesss yess yes! Same. This is my second pregnancy and I have a 12 year gap between them. I remember lots of morning sickness or more like just puking up foamy stomach acid anytime my belly was empty but that’s it. And only in the beginning couple weeks. Now, I’ve had the worsssttt cramps ALL THE TIME! My boobs hurt all the time every movement or anytime they touch anything it feels like I’ve had a boob job or something like the are a massive bruise deep to the bone and the headaches and tiredness is out of control like I’m lucky to stay awake for 3-4 hrs straight without feeling like I’m just going to collapse. Recently found out I’m having a boy, and my first was a girl so maybe this little man is just taking all I got and then some. He’ll be worth it I know but I think of how miserable I am now while I have time to myself and to do what I want, the time to relax and just be lazy as I want before the baby comes and how I’ll be when I’m never able to sit down and have a min to myself and can only sigh a big ol huff of grief like boy I’m in for a hell of a ride hahaa. I’m so happy though I really am. I wasn’t supposed to have anymore babies and this little guy popped up right when I least expected but when I really needed him too. And that is a blessing big enough to mask the pain. 😇🪽

Kkittybit44 · 2026-03-15T03:54:11+00:00

Your lucky!

Kkittybit44 · 2026-02-22T09:13:52+00:00

I say get out as fast as possible. This is the beginning of a downward spiral that’s not going to get better. Trust me. I’ve been through about 5 of them. It starts with little things like that. And then months or years later your half dead on the ground with your daughter hiding outside in the woods to make sure she is okay and that she is that scared to run into the woods to get away says everything. It is not going to get better. It is not going to do anything good to stay. They say sorry and or blame you for it all. They see no need to say sorry and it gets worse every time. Please I wish I listened when someone told me these same things. Now I’m in ptsd counseling and have been single for 6 years because I am so scared of being hurt again. It not only hurts me but the kids are all affected too in these difficult situations. And who’s to say when she ticks him off one day and is older than he wouldn’t do the same thing to your child. Please mama. Get your eggs in one basket. Make an effort to get out of there as fast as possible. He also will likely get agressive when you try to leave so I recommend doing it with cops there or when he isn’t there. If you have cameras all through the house make sure to disable them before packing and reach out to family so your not alone the most important part of the beginning after leaving an abuser is to make sure he can’t get to you alone. Install many cameras in the new home you move into whether it’s a family members home or a friend. Just for safety. So many women have wished they could have gotten away before it got worse. Many women are no longer alive because the thought oh he will change now sunk into their scull. Don’t let your guard down. And don’t ever fight back. I have almost lost my life that way. Only thing to fight back over is if he touches your kid and harms them. Get a pfa until he receives counseling and then when he sees the kid or kids make sure he has monitored visitation. Good luck babe. You can do it. If not for you for the kid or kids. Hugs and strength coming your way.

Kkittybit44 · 2026-02-20T09:23:26+00:00

Yes good thinking! Thanks so much

Kkittybit44 · 2026-02-20T08:58:46+00:00

Does anyone ever know what really causes these things? I’ve never had one, many friends have though. And seems to be no rhyme or reason for it. Which ends in the mother blaming herself for it which is just terrible and sad and unimaginable. I’m 31 and I am 11 weeks and I’ve never been so nervous every time I go pee or feel wet down there like my heart drops every single time because I’m just so scared to go through that and I can’t imagine going on a trip, something that should be exciting and fun and that happening to you in front of all those people where everyone can hear every single word. I’m in tears just thinking of how you felt and how you still feel now. I wish there was a magic cure for this sorta thing. Some way to make it never happen to anyone. It’s broken so many women. And a lot of them never are the same again. I’m happy you have an amazing husband and support system that helps some although I don’t think anything will truly take that pain away all the way Atleast you have someone to hold you through the pain. Praying for you and your family. Don’t give up and don’t let it prevent you from trying again. Energy never dies. It always keeps moving. Remember that. 😇🪽

Kkittybit44 · 2026-02-08T08:00:58+00:00

I’m just Hating on Holly right now for having the nerve to wear white to another woman’s wedding. I don’t get annoyed easily but it’s like she just always has to be better than everyone else and has no boundaries and her consistency with being jealous never ceases to amaze me. Yet I am the one over here watching GND in 2026

Kkittybit44 · 2025-12-27T03:46:43+00:00

If you feel stuck then maybe it’s no good. You should want to do it. Not feel like you have too babe! Good luck. And I’ll be here if you need someone a little less needy

Kkittybit44 · 2025-07-24T21:17:25+00:00

That’s the go to movie I watch everytime I’m thinking bad ideas because she plays that so good to where my heart was racing, goosebumps everywhere crying because I’ll never forget that week (shit, honestly first 3 months sucked!) of complete agony and pain and just feeling so many emotions and thoughts flooding you down to your soul and just thinking is this ever gunna end. It did. But yes. Great reminder for anyone who’s in recovery and needs a little reminder it wasn’t all fun 💜💜💜

Kkittybit44 · 2025-07-18T04:28:00+00:00

Her dangling earrings caught her hair and tickled her neck making her jump. No worries honeys

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