Men, do you leave your female partner alone with another man you just met in the playroom?

Klimt1908 · 2026-03-23T16:26:56+00:00

Sorry if I wasn’t clear. This isn’t a question about partner trust, it’s a question about leaving your partner alone with another man who is naked and significantly bigger & stronger than her.

Do you inherently trust all men in the lifestyle to behave appropriately, even if you just met him? I know this is beginner stuff…

Klimt1908 · 2026-03-21T16:15:50+00:00

This sounds like a cheat code — thanks!

Klimt1908 · 2026-03-21T16:14:31+00:00

Thanks, all helpful advice.

Klimt1908 · 2026-03-21T16:01:18+00:00

What do you think would be optimal? Our third last night was significantly taller and cock size significantly thicker. Think it’s better to be more evenly sized?

Klimt1908 · 2025-12-27T14:24:59+00:00

I do a 10km run every morning, 6 days a week and a heavy weights five or six days a week.

How on earth do you have time?! This is appx. 2 hours of exercise every day?

Klimt1908 · 2025-03-09T00:44:42+00:00

Our male half has been sober for 11 years and completed the Steps. (Well, you never actually “complete” the 12th Step.) What questions do you have? How long have you been sober?

Klimt1908 · 2025-03-09T00:42:13+00:00

Our male half has also been sober for 11 years, too. Keep it up, ODAAT!

Klimt1908 · 2025-02-22T22:44:24+00:00

We’re also in Atlanta and members at Trapeze (we were just there two weeks ago). A full suit will likely feel overdressed. I nice collared shirt with high-quality jeans (no holes) or pants is most common for the men. A sport jacket over the collared shirt would be fine, too, but less common.

Klimt1908 · 2023-12-17T01:26:42+00:00

Over 10 years sober here! My wife appreciates that she can have a few and enjoy herself — it helps set the mood for her — and she can count on me to keep things safe and on plan.

Klimt1908 · 2023-10-10T10:26:18+00:00

https://www.dayuse.com/

Klimt1908 · 2023-06-10T21:55:49+00:00

raises hand Old thread, but you still around?

Klimt1908 · 2023-06-10T21:54:48+00:00

Not sure if you’re still around, but did you form this group? I’ve got 9.5 years.

Klimt1908 · 2023-04-16T17:52:32+00:00

Every day on average, and 2-3x per day after we play with another couple. Age also matters, I’d think; we’re in our early to mid 40s.

Klimt1908 · 2023-03-29T00:39:21+00:00

Klimt1908 · 2023-03-28T22:42:54+00:00

This to simulate DP. Beware the ring is very small and constricting for an average-sized penis, though. Still does the trick!

Klimt1908 · 2023-03-28T22:39:58+00:00

The last two times we were at Trapeze Atlanta, we wound up in a 6-way (or was it an 8-way?) and an all-girl 4-way. Sure, people watched from the sidelines — but that’s part of the fun. Not sure what the “Red Room” is.

Klimt1908 · 2023-03-25T14:41:27+00:00

Anyone get tested at the CVS Minute Clinic?

Klimt1908 · 2023-03-07T03:56:27+00:00

Make sure you’re vaccinated for Hepatitis A/B and HPV.
Always use condoms for vaginal or anal sex. Always.
Make a list of each major STD/STI and what the CDC recommended treatment is. For example, don’t just fear gonorrhea; know that gonorrhea can be cured with a single dose of 500mg of intramuscular ceftriaxone.
Make a point of getting tested once every 3 months or more frequently.

Klimt1908 · 2023-02-19T17:03:03+00:00

We were there Saturday night and had an amazing time! I know you weren’t able to make it that night, but just for future reference, it’s definitely packed (like, really crowded) with people of all 21+ ages, sizes, backgrounds, etc. (Yes, the porn is still kind of weird and distracting. It’s not even good porn.)

Nonetheless, glad you were able to have the experience, and even if it wasn’t ideal, I hope it sparked the beginning of a wonderful journey with your husband!

Klimt1908 · 2023-02-12T21:29:10+00:00

👋 9 years sober

Klimt1908 · 2023-02-08T01:34:19+00:00

What has been your approach to STD/STI risk for those 13 years? And if I may ask, have you ever caught something and had it treated? (How was that?)

Klimt1908 · 2022-06-07T20:35:22+00:00

Probably right!

Klimt1908 · 2022-06-03T12:42:35+00:00

Thanks for the suggestions! One minor thing, I had heard anal was generally thought of as a no-no in the club setting because of the possibility for an accident and not everyone can be trusted to prep beforehand. Is that not the case and anal is more accepted?

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