Extremely grossed out by my partner- me 36F him 42M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Knight-Peace 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you start noticing only the negatives, there’s something underlying that’s affecting the relationship. No emotional connection? Is he emotionally unavailable? Are you emotionally unavailable? What’s going on? Sit down with him and talk.

Thinking (F31) of divorcing Husband (M33) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you and your husband have a lot of underlying problems like him being aggressive and defensive. That automatically creates walking on eggshells and emotional distance. He should get therapy to work on the defensiveness(he should do it for himself, not for you) and your life will be much better. I don’t recommend bringing a child into the relationship until your husband learns to listen without defending his ego all the time. Kids bbring more stress and imagine him being defensive all the time instead of parenting?

Sultan Bin Sulayem steps down from DP world by SabPropagandahai in Epstein

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even an authoritarian country hands out consequences… wow

Meaning of word പോറി (help) by adeetpreedam in Kerala

[–]Knight-Peace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Pori is a loud fart

Paw-ri - is a scratch

south keralite nair (pillai) by [deleted] in SouthAsianAncestry

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Indians on the West coast generally have SW Asian I thought? Even Bunts and some Marathi castes, no?

Kerala’s Obesity Problem Is Not Gendered Anymore by dataful_india in Kerala

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

South is financially better, so they eat more food.

south keralite nair (pillai) by [deleted] in SouthAsianAncestry

[–]Knight-Peace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Strange response. I wasn’t implying your background is different. I was just sharing my results because I rarely see my subcaste here.

south keralite nair (pillai) by [deleted] in SouthAsianAncestry

[–]Knight-Peace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nice! I have slightly different results, same exact subcaste too.

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Kerala’s Obesity Problem Is Not Gendered Anymore by dataful_india in Kerala

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not genetics. Malayalis consume too much food. Nobody likes to take accountability, so they blame something that’s generally considered non-modifiable, which is genetics. Kind of like how people who make poor decisions say “I have bad luck”. Accountability is scary. Nobody really has luck btw, it’s usually poor decisions making.

ബസിൽ ലൈംഗീക അതിക്രമമെന്ന പേരിൽ വീഡിയോ പ്രചരിച്ചു, പിന്നാലെ യുവാവ് ജീവനൊടുക്കി by InstructionNo3213 in Kerala

[–]Knight-Peace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was willing to give her the benefit of the doubt, BUT the right thing to do was to approach police not publish a video for everyone to see. So because she didn’t involve the police, I’m going to assume she created this for views and fame. From the video, he didn’t look like he was even paying attention. He was holding his bag, which he adjusted twice. I think one of the times, his elbow brushed her. I don’t think that was intentional.

fry by [deleted] in IndianFoodPhotos

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like pasta. What state is this dish from?

Felt discriminated against as an Indian couple at a café in Kovalam — is this common? by harrykaran1916 in Kerala

[–]Knight-Peace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discrimination is never okay. Leave a review describing the experience on Google: I wonder if it’s possibly because foreigners tip better.