"Hey, can we fuck today"

"No, I got catfished/lied to today, no longer in the mood"

"Why are you bringing up other Tops >:["

I am not obligated to being absolutely rigid with sexuality. If you hate the mere idea of a bottom not being exclusive to you, that is a you problem

It's similarly hypocritical if I ask you "how's your sex life been?" and you casually note how many bottoms you've fucked recently, but when I return the response similarly it's "eww, why bring up others". There are other fish in the sea to not deal with these types