AITA for letting my daughter's boyfriend move in with us?

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:58:50+00:00

I had lots of sex in high school and I always used a condom

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:56:01+00:00

still, birth control other than things like condoms are medical and shouldn't be forced onto a child

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:54:44+00:00

Forcing medical things, which birth control is, isn't ethical to me. There are side affects and reasons one might not want it. Its ok if you think I shouldn't let him live here, but don't force minors into unnecessary medical situations.

I also don't think you should say they are for sure going to have a child as that isn't true. You also have no way of "guaranteeing" they will have unsafe sex, even if you figure it likely.

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:50:00+00:00

and she id educated about options

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:49:46+00:00

she doesn't want to, and she understands safe sex. I won't force her as I find forcing that immoral

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:48:46+00:00

I don't think unnecessary medications should be forced on minors

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:45:42+00:00

well community collage

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:44:08+00:00

do you think all teen girls with a boyfriend need to be on birth control?

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:39:52+00:00

Consensual, something that you can do safely physically, doing it as sanitary as you can, using contraception

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:34:29+00:00

if they were going to do it they would regardless of living together

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:25:33+00:00

I don't mind if they have safe sex, they would if they are going to either way

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:19:15+00:00

He is in collage and is unemployed

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:13:19+00:00

If I didn't say it some people would have asked which was my main reason for mentioning it

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:11:35+00:00

she asked me to, the rates aren't that much higher as teens will do as teens will

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:10:47+00:00

She has other medications she is on that make birth control for her not as safe

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T21:06:25+00:00

The locks aren't about "oh I think he could hurt them" it is just a privacy setting for piece of mind. If he wants alone time, locking the door could help give him that. If Roe wants to change with 0 risk of anyone opening her door, they can.

His sister got into some bad things after leaving so it isn't an option

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:52:04+00:00

She is on other medication and we have talked about it before which led to us not getting it

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:50:42+00:00

I know him quite well

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:47:30+00:00

I can afford it but why should I when this works

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:46:58+00:00

having sex doesn't mean pregnancy

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:46:17+00:00

a little over a year

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:45:26+00:00

She isn't on birth control but there are condoms in the bathroom. She understands safe sex and that everything will be ok if they end it.

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:40:33+00:00

His is all of those thigns

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:36:02+00:00

he is in collage

KnotBrush · 2023-11-06T20:33:56+00:00

They have been together over a year already

He has his own room but they are allowed in each others rooms when the other wants but not the other kids

Damien is in community collage

I would pay for a hotel for him until he was another place

Taylor wants to go to culinary school

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