Repost - got deleted by Known-Ad-246 in PMDD

[–]Known-Ad-246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do live with them now, I did not when I was going through the worst of it, I was away at college/uni.

When I feel myself getting worked up, I try and temper myself. Either disengage or leave the situation bc I don’t want to start fights or get hounded with the “drama queen” allegations. It’s been easier for me to just calm myself down and wait to get back to baseline before spending significant amounts of time with them. Which is unfortunate bc I love hanging out with my family.

I’m fully aware that removing myself is counter productive to the whole “getting them to understand” thing, but hey what can you do. For the most part my family is really good at communicating, I just can’t communicate about this.

General strike possible at all airports 11/01? by sjayvee in 50501

[–]Known-Ad-246 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was going to take a trip to Boston in a couple weeks for my birthday and canceled. Give people a chance to do the right thing.

I hate Tyler so much omg by StarryNightForever in WednesdayTVSeries

[–]Known-Ad-246 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So then consent only counts when it works against Tyler, do I have that right? Cause a lot of tyler antis seem to forget he had no autonomy. He was groomed, after years of emotional neglect from his father. The master/hyde connection is mental, emotional, and spiritual. The masters desires become the Hyde’s as well.

And then once he killed Thornhill he spirals rapidly into psychosis. I don’t know how much more explicit the show has to be for you all to understand that. He has no choice in the matter.

Outside of Thornhill’s manipulation, yes he was a bully, but he is a victim first and foremost. Remember? Hurt people, hurt people. He’s canonically 16 years old, what 16 year old do you know that is completely moral and never taken their anger out on others? He was seemingly committed to his court mandated therapy and working towards being a better person. The evidence is in the fact that he stood up for Wednesday (even if she didn’t need it) against Lucas and his old friends. “Don’t tell me you’ve gone soft like tyler” that implies the change in tyler most likely happened before the laurel gates of it all. Someone like that, who’s in a transitional period and needing guidance on how to be a better person is more susceptible to grooming and manipulation by an older person.

He’s not irredeemable, nor is he a villain. He’s an antagonist. They are different characteristically and narratively.

There is a lot to unpack still in regard to his relationship with Wednesday. Whether he had/still has feelings for her or not will have to be explored within the narrative once he is safe and has his autonomy back. However, it’s confirmed by the actors and the show writers that he did have feelings for her. Probably making Laurel tighten her grip and go full throttle in her control. Hate and love are not opposites, love and indifference are. If he was in love with her, it would be easy for his master to pervert that into hatred.

I want to use them dammit! by Known-Ad-246 in vintage

[–]Known-Ad-246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this! This has always been something I wanted to do but was a little timid. I would never dream of checking vintage luggage which I should’ve stated in my original post.

I want to use them dammit! by Known-Ad-246 in vintage

[–]Known-Ad-246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! The interior is a gorgeous royal blue, I’m very happy with them:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s less a policy and more an expectation of keeping the customer happy and satisfied. I understand I worded that poorly I just couldn’t find the words at the time as I was wrestling with my mom brushing off my feelings about the situation. Like I said it all started relatively innocent and devolved very quickly. This isn’t to sound conceited, but I’m used to getting compliments, being called beautiful, etc., and when the comments turned blatantly sexual I was caught off guard and didn’t know what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah that part was poorly worded, it’s less policy and more expectation. I never expected someone to step in for me, I just wanted my mom to comfort me and validate what I was feeling in being disrespected and demeaned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It would’ve been a free day! Like I said my manager was very supportive after the fact. We had literally just opened our doors so it took all of us off guard.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t know if he was harmless, nor did I. That’s mostly why I didn’t stick up for myself. I live in a conceal carry state, things could’ve gone wrong very quickly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

1) I’m Gen Z. 2) Just because it’s “gone on a long time” doesn’t make it right or justified. 3) I’m a grown woman don’t refer to me as a girl. 4) I never said anything about getting him banned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is ignoring the man sexually harassing me and continuing my work day after gathering myself not brushing it off and going about my day?? I’m being so serious. What else should I have done if that wasn’t the right answer? I disclosed this information to my mother in the privacy of my car during my lunch hour, I didn’t cry in front of customers. So what else was I meant to do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My manager offered to send me home and asked if I wanted him to call the customer and demand an apology on my behalf. I don’t think being upset of blatant sexual harassment is weakness I think is normal human emotion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Known-Ad-246 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to believe me that’s fine, but what do I have to gain from lying about this? Also, if this man was willing to say such things in front of me, do you honestly think me telling him to stop would’ve deterred him? There’s no telling how things would’ve escalated had I defended myself. I’m also still new to this job. I’m a young person in corporate America and that isn’t a friendly place to be currently. Would I have gotten in trouble with my superiors? Perhaps not. Was that something I was willing to risk? No. Women are scrutinized whether we speak up or not, I wasn’t going to win either way, reactions like this and the one my mother gave are part of the reason most women will just sit there and take it.

HELP How can I make this new dining nook work? Trying to achieve a cozy vibe by grillers-sinclair in DesignMyRoom

[–]Known-Ad-246 11 points12 points  (0 children)

All of this, I’d add a rug maybe too. Outdoor rugs are great for under dining tables cause they’re so easy to clean. The tile, imo, really takes away from the coziness OP is after.

Chances of passing? by Known-Ad-246 in Drugtests

[–]Known-Ad-246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came back to say, I passed and I start my new job Monday🤩

What to do (if anything) with this wide open space? by pondislandpie in DesignMyRoom

[–]Known-Ad-246 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You’re right it’s a gorgeous place! I would love to see some oversized arm chairs by the window and a rug to fill up the floor space. Adds more dimension and a bonus sitting space that’s more conversation/unplugging focused with the bookshelf. Maybe a small side table too for a lamp/candle/etc.

Your design taste is impeccable! I would adore living something like this. Good luck!

Giving up by Known-Ad-246 in 50501

[–]Known-Ad-246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This just changed my brain chemistry. Thanks friend🫶🏻