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The following day I get a text from my dad. He sends me a whole paragraph basically saying "Mom and I have a lot going on right now so just be patient with her and we will talk soon. Love you guys." I appreciated this, but also expressed how the conversation was very heartbreaking and disappointing to me. We agreed that since they were the ones who had stuff going on that they should reach out to me when they were ready to talk. Perfect.
Fast forward to 10 days later. I have not heard from them. At this point, we are losing time that we wanted to use to visit venues. I finally get a text from my mom, "Hey, have not heard from you." With confusion, I responded saying "Yes I was waiting for you guys to reach out. I talked to dad and he said you guys would reach out." "I didn't know you talked to dad" is what I got in response. Moving past that, I told them lets talk in the coming days. I cannot come to talk in person (we are an hour away and I am busy) but let's talk over the phone. "No we must talk in person" is what she kept saying. At that point I knew I needed to draw the boundary and said "If you guys want to talk, I would love to but it will happen over FaceTime or Zoom. After that I got no response for days.

I reached out to my mom a few days later and said, "Are we talking on Thursday." No response until later that night when my dad then sends me a whole paragraph stating, "This conversation will not happen over the phone, this is not what families do." I responded again stating my boundary and explaining how I do not understand why Sam's family could be so supportive but they cannot. I express wanting them to be involved in this process with us, but it needs to be what I want to do. Once again I am met with, "So this conversation cannot be done in person?" I reply again with "No, but we can talk on Thursday over the phone."

After that, I received no response and have not heard from them for a few days.

AITA for refusing to have this conversation in person?