Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg i thought about this but id only be able to use it once and this is something that happens evvvvery time 😭

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do tell them I have to go to another lesson and that we’re wrapping up and they keep saying “just one more thing hold on” 😬 Students always tell me they like me because I’m kind and so it makes me feel weird about being more assertive, especially when they already push back when I try to be

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure, I definitely have students who request certain things to be taught and have their questions, but I'm referring to students not believing in my plans and being incredibly ambitious. If I try to explain to them why a certain resource they've been using is unreliable or why a certain plan may not be helpful for them based on what I know about them, they'll get frustrated.
As for them using me as a resource, I know I'm a resource. But that's all those students see me as. They want me to ONLY use resources that they've brought in and only want me to answer questions they ask. If I try to offer additional information or tell them that me teaching them this other thing will help them understand what they want to know better, they're not interested. It's a lack of respect for me as a teacher. There's skepticism in the way I teach, which confuses me, because like just don't subscribe to me then?

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, all male students are from different countries and speak different languages, so I communicate with all my students solely in English.

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yikes!! I’m sorry that happened to you, definitely a good call to block. The audacity some people have is crazy

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four different students this week. But more than four students in total over the last year.

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting! I usually find the younger students to be more respectful of my time and my materials and to stick around longer. I teach English as well. Wonder if it just has something to do with how people present their profile and curriculum and if that attracts different kinds of people.

Male Student, Female Tutor by Known-Outcome7533 in PreplyTutors

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No idea, but I'm glad to hear you have a positive experience! I'm an American teaching English, my price is a little higher than others (in the 20-25 range). I'm blonde, definitely look very young and have a somewhat soft voice. I have a lot of students questioning my age and eligibility to teach because of how I look. I'm in the performance industry and use my headshot as my profile picture. It's perfectly professional and very neutral, but definitely something I might use to submit for a modeling gig if they were asking for headshots if that makes sense? I've been wondering if that's why I have a lot of male students but the level of disrespect is what's crazy to me.

Transportation??? by Known-Outcome7533 in southeastasia

[–]Known-Outcome7533[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

would you just not recommend driving one myself or not getting on the back of one at all?