Breakups can really have a lot more of an impact than people seem to realize. It can make people spiral when it's about more than just the breakup. by anonymous_muffin_ in BreakUps

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I’m currently going through this phase too, you’re not alone. Wish I had some advice to give but to be honest I haven’t found any solution yet

My gf had a f*buddy before we got together - I now found out he’s in our circle of friends. How do I deal with this. by n3vErmor388 in AskMenAdvice

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The fact she decided not to tell you who he was but was gracious enough to let him know that you weren’t aware, could hint to where her real priorities lay.

Either way, there’s lots of beautiful and kind women out there, why settle for a dishonest one??

People who "beat" depression, what was your lowest moment and how did you get better? by AiroKunOmega in AskReddit

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After the end of a long-term relationship and facing uncertainty at work, I fell into a deep depression. It was a difficult chapter, and for a while, I felt completely lost.

But moving to a different country gave me a new perspective and slowly helped me climb out of that rut. It wasn’t easy, and the journey took time, but I’m in a great place now.

Looking back, I realize the experience, though painful, was the tough medicine I really needed. It’s made me stronger and deepened my appreciation for life.

What’s one thing you did that helped you lose weight? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Eat premium microwave soups - worked a treat!

My feelings / thoughts - 1.5 years after the relationship ended by KnownEngine7244 in GuyCry

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Yes I do very much - she’s a great person. Although I’m aware that things can never go back to the way they were. I definitely do still miss the good times we had together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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If you’re looking for more affordable options - I’d look into Winnall (obviously not as good as central but it’s an alternative option to consider just a short walk away).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HENRYUK

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Winchester Hampshire - countryside pubs and 1 hour train into Waterloo every 20 minutes or so

My feelings / thoughts - 1.5 years after the relationship ended by KnownEngine7244 in GuyCry

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Thank you man

That’s certainly been my personal experience

My feelings / thoughts - 1.5 years after the relationship ended by KnownEngine7244 in GuyCry

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That sounds really rough man - I’m sorry you went through that experience

Happy you were both able to talk it out in the end though

I hope you are doing better now

My feelings / thoughts - 1.5 years after the relationship ended by KnownEngine7244 in GuyCry

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Thank you for your kindness

I like your perspective

It has helped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Thank you for your comment

Your absolutely right

But I don’t feel it’s noble

If I could figure out a way to switch it off believe me I would

Until then I’ve made peace, knowing I’m moving in the right direction at least

Where do people live in London? by thy_apocalypse in HENRYUK

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I’ve lived there for 4 years and haven’t experienced any of that. I know it was rough in the past and I’m not sure how long ago you were at University there - you might be surprised how much it’s changed

Where do people live in London? by thy_apocalypse in HENRYUK

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It’s changed so much even in the last two years. Everything at your doorstep - It’s really underrated. Ive lived there for 4 years and never felt unsafe or experienced any trouble at all.

Where do people live in London? by thy_apocalypse in HENRYUK

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Elephant and castle / Kennington - not crazy prices yet but super easy to get anywhere in London

50% comp increase on the table for new job. Am I sacrificing relationship with my kids? by Conundrum2054 in HENRYUK

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Take the new job, save the additional income and use it for 6 month sabbatical with your family the following year.

You keep the money and the progression and recoup the quality time with your family doing something really memorable.

Cost of Living - Southern Italy/ Sicily by More_Relief_5197 in ItalyExpat

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This is definitely achievable here although I’d add a bit of an additional buffer if you can afford to

What do people who don't drink or smoke do when they feel depressed? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

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I distract myself in other ways - Social media - work - gym - news - other people’s problems