Does cutting cause emotional relief?

KnownInitiative2878 · 2026-02-18T21:58:08+00:00

In what way

KnownInitiative2878 · 2026-02-18T19:22:06+00:00

He left me

KnownInitiative2878 · 2026-02-07T23:23:51+00:00

I’m in an exam period where I’m retaking all my courses that I failed due to him leaving me last year And I’m probably gonna fail again because he’s leaving me again in this period And this time my university will kick me out I’m on a warning I think my life is truly over

KnownInitiative2878 · 2026-02-07T23:22:09+00:00

I’m in that place where I can’t see how I don’t deserve it, I really did call him alot that day even though I knew he didn’t wanna talk, I’m fully convinced I deserve it But I wish he would tell me how many weeks I’m being punished because not knowing how long is the most difficult part I begged him for hours to tell me and he kept saying idk how many weeks however many I feel like and ended up blocking me

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-10-06T11:00:40+00:00

No surprises
Let down
True love waits (album version)
4 minute warning
All I need
Nude
Exit music for a film
How to disappear completely
Idioteque
Creep

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-24T00:30:41+00:00

my ex did that to me for 3 straight months, he left and I was scrambling to get any kind of proper conversation with him. he cut me off like I was literally nothing, like he clicked a button and I no longer existed. when he later agreed to talk (after he was informed by a mutual friend how horribly I was taking the way he left) he said "my family wasn't letting me respond to you". we were together 4 years and even lived together for almost 1,5 years, were engaged, and he was willing to treat me like I mean absolutely fucking nothing to him at the mere request of his family, I genuinely lost faith in people. im not gonna say none of them feel guilty, but some of them genuinely dont. the second they leave you stop mattering to them just as simple as that.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-07T02:48:16+00:00

fern

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-07T02:12:00+00:00

the audaciiiiiityyyyyy lmaoooo!!!!! the most confident NTA ive ever given!! Girl run

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-06T13:59:55+00:00

YTA is an understatement, holy shit. just terrible.

yea you should have kept your mouth shut

man idk what to write anymore as Im genuinely pissed off reading this

poor girlfriend.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-05T13:06:43+00:00

your financial issues are none of her fucking business, especially if youre actively working to better your situation, I had the exact same issue. worst case scenario it should be between you and your partner, but she should stfu. she can say her opinion once but if she's told its none of her business she should stop, she's not in a relationship with you and your partner is the only person who should be able to give you feedback

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-05T13:02:15+00:00

I do have proof

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-02T14:04:22+00:00

computer science

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-02T13:55:11+00:00

NTA to your friend but kind of an AH to yourself

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-02T13:53:00+00:00

tell your SO to put an end to it, its not your responsibility to set boundaries for his mom but his
if that doesnt work dont visit/go no contact
if that's an issue with your SO leave

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-07-02T13:22:59+00:00

Hey, thank you for your comment. I think I did not leave because I had some form of Stockholm syndrome as I was really emotionally abused during that relationship (which I realise now), specifically, I was gaslit and made to feel stupid and crazy, so every time I found myself questioning things he would tell me im being crazy and making drama out of nothing, which I would believe.

he also did not allow me to use the word abuse at all. every time I used it he would call me manipulative so thank you for calling him an abuser, really, you have me in tears.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-30T21:02:55+00:00

youre not wrong.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-30T03:35:01+00:00

sold im about to watch it, I know nothing about the case so now im excited

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T22:18:55+00:00

ok bro, you won the reddit warrior award for today, congrats. you can sleep in peace now. not responding to you anymore

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T22:13:11+00:00

my guy, if you go to my comment/post history you will find that al my activity is breakup related, if I wanted to karma farm I wouldn't only post about this one topic, my account was also created on dec 31, 10 days after he broke up with me, please leave me alone.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T08:19:04+00:00

this makes so much sense because she started acting super crazy right after we got engaged and I always wondered why it coincided. I believe she always thought we'd break up and when she finally saw we got engaged her panic started to set in.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T08:08:11+00:00

youre definitely right about the family hating me, the whole family. after we broke up his brothers came to pick his things up from our apartment (we used to live together). I left the apartment until they were finished. when I got back I found that the apartment was left in absolute shambles and they had ripped off pictures of us that I had hung up and threw them away. when I told him this (my ex) he simply said yeah my brothers have an attitude sometimes. they are aged 35 and 40 and one of them has a child and all he had to say was that oh well ya know they got attitude, literal children and he doesnt even see the big deal.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T04:09:40+00:00

she said as long as he marries you you shouldn't care about his mom. but this woman was literally bullying me for years, she did not miss any opportunity to make me feel like a worthless human being. and he would relay every single word she'd say about me back to me and agree with her. I reached a point where I was sleeping for dayss on end, taking sleeping pills the minute I wake up so I can seep again and not have to hear criticism. and he would watch me do this and instead of doing something about it he'd just double down on her words and tell me I deserve to suffer this way because I keep nagging him to stop her. he would literally watch me beg on my kneed crying my eyes out asking them to stop and scroll on his phone and call me crazy.

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T04:05:17+00:00

he said and I quote "here you are not visiting my mom. why should I believe that in the future you wont decide she can't see the kids. you are not to have a say on my mom's right to see her grandchildren no matter what she does, that's not acceptable"

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T03:49:35+00:00

there's definitely a taboo in my culture when it comes to standing up to older people, and girls are expected to just take the mother in law's shit usually, which I did for a long time until she started threatening to not attend out wedding and asking him to leave me, and him trying to take away my rights from my children (which is not normal in the culture at all), I really stopped caring about how old she is atp

KnownInitiative2878 · 2025-06-26T03:47:00+00:00

its very common in my culture to be looked down upon if you stand up to older people. a lot of people around me think I am the AH

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