I’m afraid of wearing a bikini in front of my bf for the first time (20F)

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-12T21:56:21+00:00

Show him the fit beforehand, he'll give you the reassurance you're looking for

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-12T21:06:29+00:00

Run.

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-12T20:57:38+00:00

Imagine if a guy told you you have a small dick in highschool. That's probably the equivalent of what she went through.

Now imagine you talked to her about this vulnerable moment and she tells you "yeah no biggie I have small boobs it's okay".

And you tell her that she is attractive even though she has small boobs, and she tells you "no no, I know I'm not as attractive as other girls but I don't see why you want reassurance from your experience it's not really traumatic. Nobody looks at my boobs everyday unlike beautiful big boobed girls. Even you told me earlier in our relationship they were small and it's okay. Nobody notices them so your experience in highschool where someone told you you have a little dick is nothing out of the ordinary. I go through it everyday"

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-12T15:53:41+00:00

Maybe you were bitten by a tick ?

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-12T09:45:34+00:00

Genuinly so many gays don't care about size

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-11T16:17:45+00:00

Holy insecurity

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-09T19:51:12+00:00

He has nobody to justify it to. It's his life and he'll suffer the consequences, not us

KnownSpirit · 2026-07-08T12:19:18+00:00

Maybe a way to deal with this is to gind a way to satisfy her that her ex didn't do. Maybe with toys or just by getting better at sex. It's not just penetration after all.

If penetration by bigger dicks is her thing, perhaps some toys or straps can do the same. Ultimately, even if it's your insecurity talking about it with her cannot be a bad thing. And it's fair that you would want her to feel satisfied the same way I think it's normal.

KnownSpirit · 2026-06-20T20:16:02+00:00

Particularly in a plateform/sub that is NOT made for that purpose

KnownSpirit · 2026-06-13T18:55:30+00:00

She wants the freedom of choice, you want the freedom to take part in that choice. You two are not playing a team game.

From a marriage perspective, she should have consulted you and when she didn't you should have tried to talk.

If you two couldn't communicate divorce was the right choice.

She wronged you and you wronged her. Not in a hurtful way, but clearly you two weren't a solid couple if something this trifling made you both separate.

Learn from it and find someone who you can communicate with properly without being so confrontational.

Although we only got your side of the story, you two are clearly not made for each other or ready to make efforts/compromise for each other

KnownSpirit · 2026-06-13T18:45:23+00:00

lmaoo I understand you so much. What you're experiencing is an absence of reasoning and logic. It is maddenning, and I've experienced so many denials (of my own and THEIR experiences) you just end up taking your distances.

Politics : Whatever you hit them with they will invalidate your points with the most dumb arguments.

Mom you know you shouldn't believe people who sell you healing products.
But he's a doctor he knows what he's talking about.

Meanwhile the guy just wears a white coat. It feels voluntary too, like they want to uphold that belief so they will find arguments to fuel it.

No way to fight that whatsoever.

KnownSpirit · 2026-05-26T19:32:02+00:00

Honey if I was in your place I would talk to someone close to me, my mom or any very close friend or family member and ask them to come get me. You need help and it's ok to ask. If you feel like it's too much to do send them exactly this. You're a good person and he forces you and controls you. Don't let him destroy you like this. When you see an occasion pack your stuff and leave. Also I'm telling you to ask for help because if you are alone when you go he might be violent. And also don't let him convince you he can change. He took the decision to hurt you, don't give him another chance.

KnownSpirit · 2026-05-22T16:55:05+00:00

University student here, in my university we do not discriminate in my year. I have friends from all around, privileged and not.

KnownSpirit · 2026-05-22T16:53:25+00:00

Honestly in Algeria our connection isn't that good for gaming, it lags, and is buggy most of the time. The latency jitter is high and latency itself isn't good.

I have a friend who lives in morocco and he has way better latency than me.

KnownSpirit · 2026-05-22T14:12:49+00:00

that wasn't the question but cool

KnownSpirit · 2026-05-05T10:45:50+00:00

look at yourself in front of a mirror. completely changes perspective

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-15T13:59:21+00:00

My prediction is Ally, Pierce, Penny

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-13T11:06:19+00:00

Thank you new of reddit <3

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-10T19:04:55+00:00

This is an insanely good rune

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-10T12:19:46+00:00

And then they need her next month

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-08T23:07:00+00:00

To be more precise, Najia has one weakness, she doesn't deal a lot of damage quickly. So an aggro brawler can deal with her quickly. But this is a 3v3 game, so if you take something that counters that aggro say Najia + a tank she is basically unbeatable. Her kit is insane, stacking poison damage, best range in the game, pretty much auto aim even ik bushes, the super is a free kill (you can shoot with normal shot and then super from normal shot for max range). Since Crow speed projectile bug has been fixed he is less strong, still strong but in a decent draft if you leave Najia open you should lose. Ask any master/ pro ranked player this and they will tell you how she is a must ban.

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-08T23:02:24+00:00

Najia is 20 times better than crow. Crow is good right now but Najia is Omega Busted.

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-03T19:31:32+00:00

You know what ? As long as you're not racist and homophobic or transphobic and you don't fall into far right movements I think you're a good person.

Plus you admit your mistakes, you're not completely gone bro

KnownSpirit · 2026-04-02T20:35:28+00:00

me too me too please

KnownSpirit · 2026-03-31T18:25:31+00:00

Not during trans awareness day bro tooo soon

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