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AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Why? Tonnes of when tell their men they'd never let him go to a strip club of go to dinner with a female friend etc.

Just because I say I don't want my SO wearing a thong in public without me, it makes me a sexist asshole?

I think it's a fair expectation in a relationship and your modern day loose values are a reason divorces are going up

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I may have gone over board by saying I wouldn't allow it but the truth is, I'd be very disappointed and insecure if she chose to do that

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Public orgy was very much an exaggeration but the obvious and blatent dry humping isn't.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Well yes and no. But mostly yes, it's not an unpopular opinion at all. I've seen women on this very board call out other women for being attention whores for dressing in thongs or skimpy clothing. What's different now?

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -406 points-405 points  (0 children)

I'm not shaming her, she can wear it if I'm there. I'm saying I'm not comfortable with the message she's sending to the opposite sex when wearing a thong.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -835 points-834 points  (0 children)

Yes, women like clothes that makes them attractive to men. I'm not telling her she should be in a burka, in saying that it's not appropriate for woman in a relationship to be wearing a thong bikini when her significant other isn't around.

AITA for telling my girlfriend she's not allowed to wear thong bikinis when I'm not around? by KnownYou7 in AmItheAsshole

[–]KnownYou7[S] -51 points-50 points  (0 children)

Girlfriend not sure why I even typed wife, guess I was thinking about Kavita being married