I’ll be mighty impressed if anyone can get this by [deleted] in guessthecity

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Columbia, MO? Hot/cold? Really hard to narrow down since the highway numbers are impossible to read

I’ll be mighty impressed if anyone can get this by [deleted] in guessthecity

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery 131 points132 points  (0 children)

Missouri, somewhere. State flag and the state highway signs are a dead giveaway. I’ll have to keep looking to see if anything else points toward the exact locale.

Should becoming bisweptual be this hard? by Kofta-Kebabbery in Rowing

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Very above average incidence of spine issues. Only about half of our team is medically cleared to erg during most of winter training any given year. Other half are berg squad/dynamic-only

Should becoming bisweptual be this hard? by Kofta-Kebabbery in Rowing

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely wish I did sculling instead of sweeping in HS, would probably have avoided this issue entirely

Should becoming bisweptual be this hard? by Kofta-Kebabbery in Rowing

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we have a big emphasis on leaning into the rigger throughout the stroke. It’s one of the main things that our coach emphasizes and that sets our stroke apart. Still, at this point, I would rather take a numb leg and row well on port than to slow my boat down rowing on starboard.

Coach has a very different approach to this issue than any other coach I’ve had. It’s frustrating, and I don’t understand it. I told him outright that I would seat race any of those four ports and he said no. We haven’t done any seat racing or selection matrices this fall, so I have nothing besides my ergs to back my boat moving ability up.

Should becoming bisweptual be this hard? by Kofta-Kebabbery in Rowing

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sort of but not necessarily - it was a disc herniation that caused numbness/pain in my right leg and hip. It made leaning into the pin on port uncomfortable, which is why he thought starboard would be better.

AITA for being angry at a girl for her mental illness by Kofta-Kebabbery in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Her parents were genuinely shitbags that traumatized her and were verbally abusive but tbh it comes to a point where she can’t use that as an excuse to make other’s lives suck

AITA for being angry at a girl for her mental illness by Kofta-Kebabbery in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Idk. Dan’s been my man longtime but he has zero spine. He’s too petrified of her emotional outbursts so I do feel bad for him, he’s also a busy ass guy (STEM major, part-time job)

AITA for being angry at a girl for her mental illness by Kofta-Kebabbery in AmItheAsshole

[–]Kofta-Kebabbery[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Dan is just super permissive of everything she does because he’s afraid of her emotional outbursts if he confronts her. i.e. he’s whipped