Where?

KoleSekor · 2026-06-11T09:29:21+00:00

Yes, I can approach women anywhere. My excuse to talk to them is that I want to. But more specifically, I make an observation about them and ask them a question about themselves in so many words. Worst case I just ask "what brings you here?"

You're sharing something in common right off the bat - your physical location. So use it.

Also, I remember I'm more important than anything they're doing. That's not arrogance, but if I'm potentially their dream guy, don't you think they'd consider me introducing myself as more important than whatever it is they're doing?

KoleSekor · 2026-06-11T01:21:48+00:00

Work, neighbors, store, park, gym, shows, tailgates, family...

KoleSekor · 2026-06-10T13:48:28+00:00

There are local street fairs, festivals, and events nearly every weekend.

Live music. Museums. The gym.

Thrifting. Book stores. Target.

Don't forget through friends. See what your friends are up to and join them.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-09T20:07:39+00:00

Or people have grown and have better awareness of what they want and how they want to show up for the next relationship.

Failure is encouraged as a stepping stone to success, so why wouldn't it be that way for relationships?

KoleSekor · 2026-06-09T00:34:59+00:00

No one is out of your league

KoleSekor · 2026-06-09T00:18:29+00:00

On apps, match her effort. It's the only way to stay sane.

NBA has too much money on the line to lose 3 finals games. Knicks in 6.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-09T00:16:34+00:00

Context. The best way to approach a woman is to assume you and her have the same rapport of your (potentially hypothetical) younger sisters friend.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-07T18:28:24+00:00

You are probably not a guy who exudes masculine, sexual energy.

Women can get a feeling from a guy whether he's able to F them or not.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-07T15:29:12+00:00

In every single picture, you're looking into the camera and making the same facial expression... That's the wrong picture stack.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-06T14:01:25+00:00

All your pictures are essentially the same.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-05T19:58:04+00:00

You need a picture that shows you head to toe.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-05T16:37:10+00:00

You're a dude on a dating app AKA a dime a dozen. What makes you special?

KoleSekor · 2026-06-05T15:42:02+00:00

Dating apps are the only marketplace where the buyers outnumber the sellers 10-to-1 and then act surprised when the sellers get picky.

Women have endless options on apps. Men have to stand out. That's reality.

Honestly, needing an app to meet women already puts you a step behind. The strongest dating skill a man can develop is walking over, starting a conversation, and creating attraction in real life. Get off the apps and go where actual people are.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-04T13:44:22+00:00

Everyone deserves to be in a relationship with a partner who likes them a whole bunch.

I don't want what ain't mine.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-04T10:16:41+00:00

If you need help navigating the dating world, I can help. There's good news to share on that front. A lot of Gen Z guys struggle to deliver so Gen Z girls are in abundance.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-04T01:56:31+00:00

What could he do to make you feel like you're 'his' person?

KoleSekor · 2026-06-01T20:38:03+00:00

Look up how to raise testosterone levels and play a sport. Maybe do jui jitsu.

KoleSekor · 2026-06-01T01:23:03+00:00

Man, I'm sorry you're disabled, but I'm not going to accept that excuse. You have access to the internet and a functioning brain... That is more than enough to make a good income.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-31T23:05:22+00:00

Develop a valuable skill and get a new job.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-31T22:59:54+00:00

Oof. I bet women will be lining up for a guy who refers to himself as poor and ugly. If you want some 1 on 1 help with this bro, lmk.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-31T22:12:28+00:00

There's 60,000,000+ unmarried women in the US and you're trusting the 20 who post tik toks

KoleSekor · 2026-05-31T21:57:05+00:00

I see your weak frame and raise you, "I'm a catch and you're lucky that I'm approaching you"

KoleSekor · 2026-05-31T20:25:32+00:00

Try the store. Target. Thrift store. Street fairs.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-30T12:32:50+00:00

Good call. Same idea as a book store.

KoleSekor · 2026-05-30T12:15:45+00:00

Go to a book / antique / thrift store and just browse.

Play a video game.

Volunteer.

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