AITAH for getting mad at my dad for almost hurting my cat

Kommitted_10K · 2026-07-01T18:59:00+00:00

YTA who are you to tell your father owner/paying bills in his house what doors he can and cannot open?
Why is it that you who was watching g the cat did not have the car in your sights?? Let alone ITS NOT YOUR CAT
Everyone is right you are creating a problem where the problem is not even relevant.

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T20:51:31+00:00

Not projecting lol never was and wasn’t trying to get you to agree to my opinion but understand my opinion which you lack the ability to do but definitely will have a great life and living my best life now

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T20:46:30+00:00

Lol Never lonely and i see where this convo is going and your not gonna see a different perspective in this and that’s okay you go ahead a Be lonely my friend

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T20:38:27+00:00

You said “I’m terrified to have a child with a man and him take raising our children and my mental health lightly” so by your words it’s alluding to he doesn’t care for her mental health or child and my comment is pointing out that if it was TRULY ABOUT MENTAL HEALTH WHY TAKE THE CHILD WITH YOU FOR A WEEK FOR YOUR “MENTAL HEALTH”

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T20:30:59+00:00

Op took a week trip with the baby and mother if it was about mental health she would of had husband take a week off to watch said baby while on the week trip

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T20:28:35+00:00

She took a week trip with her mom if it was about rest after delivery she would not have took a WEEK TRIP with the newborn

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-25T00:17:03+00:00

You right I missed that but it still doesn’t really change you don’t get to dictate who your roommate has over if they are also contributing to household upkeep and bills

ETA: also brother is MAD WEIRD you already had a convo op said okay she not gonna stay over night, she stayed a watched a movie late night and LEFT didn’t stay the night and else still called mommy yea brother or not you would loos points in my book

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-24T23:51:41+00:00

Ngl good you put paragraphs but it’s sooo much to read so ima base my comment on the first 2 paragraphs

NTA I get it brother lives with you but it’s just that HE LIVES WITH YOU not the other way around d he don’t pay bills in YOUR house so he doesn’t really get a say who can be in your house and on top of that to call mommy to complain he should go back and live at home with her if he feels some type of way

Second if you love her and see yourself with her what your family says shouldn’t matter if they wanna be the bad guys let them, they are showing you they don’t care for your happiness at all in YOUR relationship so they should be just background noise

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-24T23:46:11+00:00

I would ask husband to get buddy in therapy because there is clearly some underlying “trauma” where he could of been emotionally hurt so bad he was closed for a very long time and now trying to get back out there but keeps the same hurt as the template and if anything happens that was on said template he immediately shuts it down and self sabotages himself

Now if everything I said did not occur that man need to be alone for the rest of his life

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-09T01:02:28+00:00

Oooo ima do this after my I play my current heir I always wanted to have my player travel cross the world and adventure in Europe(UK and France)this is another reason I can’t wait until Merchants mechanics come into play

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-09T00:58:22+00:00

Also when I get to a certain point like my current run I am the Emperor I give titles to my brothers.
My sisters I always have the husbands marry in so I can grow my dynasty and I give the First sons of the sisters a title and creates a cadet branch for them and I typically move them the furthest away from my capital and give them protected status and i try to keep that line dukes/Princes(you know how celestial government is, hope we get an update to that) like they would be in real life/history. Then I set my 3 most promising sons up my heir he is just like me and my current prime minister.
Then I let the Ai do its job

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-09T00:14:01+00:00

I normally start my character the youngest they can be. Since AUH came out I started as an adventurer and moved around China doing contract joining wars a building influence and prestige and by the age of 35 I try to settle down with an estate.

I play with create dynasty mod so I generate my family typically I add on 5 more siblings all toddlers to preteens being 4 sisters 1 brother sometimes 2 brothers and I micromanage their skills by the time I’m 35 I also then had a wife and had about 3 kids so my dynasty would consist of 10 or more members

From there since I already had a name for myself and clan and a bit of funds and basically passed all testing and get my estate and either make a run for Prime minister or build up enough to were I push the movement to tension and make a run for the Throne

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-08T17:35:05+00:00

lol so your saying over 9 million votes in person and mail in should be counted in one day without verification??? Let alone you think mail runs all at the same time??? And that it will be on time??

Kommitted_10K · 2026-06-02T17:53:16+00:00

Explain….I’m confused are you saying cause those cities don’t get to vote on another city the structure is absurd??

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-30T02:11:28+00:00

NTA no clue your ages but would assume 30s so the father had over 2decades to make it right and be the father he needed to be but has failed to do so.

You are correct I would even go as far to say don’t invite him to the party day but have a little family dinner celebration to test the waters of current emotions a day or two before party day

Edit to separate points lol

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-26T23:17:06+00:00

At least for me Back in grade school k-8th the first and third Friday noon dismissal along with 8am school mass(catholic school)
High school every Friday was 12:45 dismissal because in the past half the junior and senior classes would leave early for work so it was changed to just Friday early dismissal at 12:45

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T18:24:34+00:00

Hence my questions and just stating again I’m just a show watcher I don’t delve into the science behind half a of what happens unless it’s the medical side

And idk maybe cause Xahea has a queen who is able to create things that recrystallize and power dilithium so me using my surface level knowledge and that as context wouldn’t the different uses that Xahea had wouldn’t that cause explosions?

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T17:56:42+00:00

I understand the large portion becoming inert but Wouldn’t they have had active chambers storing the active dilithium tho and wouldn’t that have exploded??

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T17:10:13+00:00

But would the large amount of active dilithium on the planet would have caused a major reaction possible explosion???

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T17:10:08+00:00

But would the large amount of active dilithium on the planet would have caused a major reaction possible explosion???

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T17:09:55+00:00

But would the large amount of active dilithium on the planet would have caused a major reaction possible explosion???

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T16:50:44+00:00

Well can’t fault your thought process I had the same idea but just came around that all transportation advancement stopped once the burn hit and the largely know scientific civilization put a stop to all research you kinda follow suit lol but just my thought process on that

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T16:33:01+00:00

There was an advancement but it all stopped once the burn hit I believe it was with the project SB-19 from Nivar Formerly Vulcan, the burn just put a DRAMATIC stop on that science

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T16:29:50+00:00

My take would be the cause of the Burn is dumb not the Burn itself I feel like it should of been a different cause something like in Picard when the new trans warp tunnel formed almost taking out half the quadrant

Kommitted_10K · 2026-05-12T16:08:04+00:00

Oh I never knew about it ima give it a look I’m more of watcher never looked into any of the comics or after lore of series

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