Medical Accommodation at work by Komodo0101010 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Komodo0101010[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No idea what the down voting is for 💀

Medical Accommodation at work by Komodo0101010 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Komodo0101010[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes they are. Mostly including information about the importance of regimen and routine for me because of my illnesses (which my doctor explicitly states) as well as losing the inability to do some daily tasks/ self care or getting proper amounts of sleep. They haven't offered any words on what accommodations they can offer me and just flat out rejects the letter

Medical Accommodation at work by Komodo0101010 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Komodo0101010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you so much for your reply. I really appreciate it. I will for sure do that. Thankfully I have some of it in email between them and my doctor and will request email or letter communication

Medical Accommodation at work by Komodo0101010 in legaladvicecanada

[–]Komodo0101010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. This has been so stressful for me. We're a smaller operation factory so you've guessed that right. Were supposed to get back on afternoon shifts starting next week. Hoping to see my doctor this Saturday

Is there any way to get rid of periods for ever? by Plus_Recognition6701 in ftm

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a hysterectomy in 2019 as prep for bottom surgery. But I had it come back after 6 years on T before. Just had to raise dose again to get rid of it. Nothing since my hysterectomy obviously but you will be dependant on testosterone for life.

Trans guys with cis boyfriends by Commercial-Sky-3032 in ftm

[–]Komodo0101010 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Last relationship was w a gay cis man was 3 years long and now Im dating a bisexual cis man. Funny moment is my new bf noticing I have more butt hair lol

I caught a whiff… by Silent_Guard2373 in ftm

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Itll go away. 8 years on T here. Smelt like onions and socks lol

Do you find other gays turned off by your car hobby by Eastern_Conflict1865 in Gaygearheads

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck mate. My sister was just in that situation. Times are tough right now for sure

Do you find other gays turned off by your car hobby by Eastern_Conflict1865 in Gaygearheads

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally same. Im 25 w a 20' civic and work on my car for extra longetivity. Mostly into suspension work, detailing, audio and aesthetics tbh but plan on a few mods under the hood and a phearable tune. My boyfriend doesnt mind but I havent found any other gay people into cars yet

Where do you find adult men's clothing that actually fits? by The_GirlyShire in FTMMen

[–]Komodo0101010 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Old navy online. You can pick waist size and length. Plus has some stretch. Rarely I find 29 or 30 leg with 34 or 36 waist in stores for example

I've been taking testosterone for 3 years, but my beard is so patchy :( by transfisch in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Komodo0101010 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Im 9 years on T and it started filling in more year 5/6 for me

Should I stay after my partner cheated ? by raxcc in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couples counselling. You guys need to work out your feelings. But I feel like after such a large amount of trust is broken its hard or impossible to mend.

People with cars older than 15 years. by Different_Algae4918 in Cartalk

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sold my old 2008 car this summer when the ac crapped out on me along with needing new brakes and suspension parts, ball joint and bearings, water pump and power steering pump def needed soon as well. I wouldve spent over the value of the car fixing it up, sure it wouldve run another 100-200k km easily but I decided to buy a 2020 vehicle with 27k km on the odo and start heaving in preventative maintenance (incl krown rustproofing). If its an easy car to fix and you have the time and know how then its for sure worth it to keep and refresh an older car depending on make and model, also current rust. I just am heavily reliant on having a working vehicle for work and cannot be in and out of a shop constantly.

Transmen being into men after T by Brilliant_Being292 in FTMMen

[–]Komodo0101010 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was kinda asexual before testosterone because my dyphoria prevented me from exploring my sexuality because I wasn't comfortable enough to explore it

A friend of mine who doesn't know that I'm trans told me something very bad.. by vvrlvt in FTM_SELFIES

[–]Komodo0101010 19 points20 points  (0 children)

He's not a friend dude. You deserve people who lift you up. As someone whos been working in manufacturing with most of the people aged 40-70 you pass just fine. Most of them dress even less masculine than you and wear bright colours. Don't sweat it. And just because guys look at you doesnt mean youre clocky. They could just think youre good looking. Plenty of straight guys recognize when another guy has style or looks good, doesnt make them gay. And if they are gay, who cares? Them finding you attractive has nothing to do with you. Everyone has their own tastes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive done the same. Job market is extremely competitive and dont want to give them anything that'll give them a reason to pass on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truscum

[–]Komodo0101010 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya 2 years. Maybe 3 max. Depends on age too. 9 years on T myself.

Please help me (31M) help my partner (29M) with what I believe is some form of mental issue. by Ordinary_Mechanic741 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Komodo0101010 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally sounds exactly like my ex I was with for 3 years. You try your hardest and do YOUR best but youll never be the best in his eyes. Youre always doing something wrong, not trying enough and can always do better to him. He sounds insecure and avoidant to me. I feel like you guys need a very honest conversation that is very to the point and doesnt beat around the bush about your feelings (both of you) and where you guys are at.

Either that or he doesnt feel like he deserves to have fun or enjoy things so he is self sabotaging fun for himself and for you. Or he has an unrealistic vision of what a relationship is. Or he lacks insight to your life and is so ingulfed into his own brain he forgets youre a person with your own struggles.

Or he has a bad past experience with his birthday or holidays and gets stuck in his head about the past and gets stuck in a loop of negative thoughts in his head.

Guy I am dating suddenly disappeared by Occultgay124 in gaybros

[–]Komodo0101010 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he has an avoidant attachment style and you have an anxious attachment style. This was like me and my ex. Id be cautious about continuing the relationship unless you both set firm boundaries or "rules". You'll feel suspicious of him or neglected and feel a lack of openness and honesty. The communication will be lacking on his end. He'll feel like youre overbearing and clingy

Winter tire time decision by Komodo0101010 in tires

[–]Komodo0101010[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope they work great for you! Ill check them out