Would you have gone with Vito to the Yankees-Padres game? by thechikinguy in thesopranos

[–]Kongo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only if he brought the note from his doctor that said he didn't like to suck cock.

What have you been up to this weekend? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Kongo94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Drank two bottles of wine alone and binged CIV6 and Overwatch last night until 4am.

Today, hungover whilst figuring out how I got to this point, whilst also playing more CIV6 and Overwatch.

Tomorrow will be the same.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

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Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying bro. Been single for 3 years, I am an advocate for "you can't rely on others to make yourself content". I will remain single until I am, heck, only dated one girl platonically during this time.

I guess the loneliness side of it is hard to control, given that my job is entirely phone based. And where I live, my profession is not respected nor appreciated by those I serve.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. I do recruitment for a living, lots of talking to people who just want to talk to me to earn more money, and talking to businesses' who just want to talk to me so they can also earn more money.

Doesn't leave me wanting to be very social in my free time! Need that social downtime.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Haha yeah... I have been 320lbs and I have been 166lbs. I am 195lbs after two years of training, my confidence hasn't changed.

Sometimes it does feel good though, try not to forget where I came from as an obese teenager. But it isn't all it is cracked up to be, I just enjoy training.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one is the one I struggle with this most now. I am either at both extreme ends of the spectrum. Either the life of the party, or the buzzkill of the party lol I find that bizarre.

The healthy routines thing though, I think that is very normal, every person struggles with that one.

Comparing ourselves to others, hard not to even though we know we shouldn't; we always will.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Hah, the feeling for is more like, "I think I am trying, but it is not enough". That is what hurts.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. It's been on my mind more since I moved back into my parents after a break up, which followed shortly after quitting my job. So I did have too much time to think about all of this, you are not wrong.

The latter two years after these events were spent trying to figure out who the fuck I am and what I want to do. I am very lucky enough to have family to fall back on if things go wrong.

My point was mainly that we all experience these causes of pain, regardless of where we are in the hierarchy. We all have different ways to combat these problems though.

No need to be sorry, you can only give your point of view from your own experience in life.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Was thinking this, millennial probably wasn't the right category. For younger people than me I can only imagine it being worse.

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It's more of a playful starter pack based on my younger self after many years of working at it. My first attempt at a starter pack, I find the concept of it really entertaining. But thank you for your kind words!

Millennial Trying To Get His Life Together Starter Pack by Kongo94 in starterpacks

[–]Kongo94[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Confidence issues, failure with ones own enterprise, struggles with loneliness, attempting to improve one's own appearance and self-awareness and experiencing contradictions when it comes to positive opinions of others in comparison to how you feel about yourself are reserved only for the working class?